Hello Zane. I would like to be kept anonymous please. I have read so many of you advice emails so I thought I would give this a go. I am a 24 year old female my ex/boyfriend is about to be 26. He and I have been dating on and off for about 8 years now. The longest we were apart was for about 1 yr and we both dated other people at that time. We recently just had a big fallen out again due to him being caught texting someone again. He claims they were just friendly text but he deleted the texts so I dont know what he was texting about. He had been staying with me since July and I asked him to leave. A part of me feels like I am overreacting but then again I dont because our whole relationship this has always been the issue me finding things in his phone or him lying about something . My fault in this is my temper because I do snap but with reasons I feel. And no I did not go snooping in his phone as I use too but this particular time I saw him texting and then knew something was funny. The thing that has held me onto him so long is his commitment and he is a good person and we talk about marriage and what not but with he is always lying about dumb stuff. My question is should i just let this go and move on for good. I am really close with his family which has made it hard. I think i should either work it out or completely cut off contact with him. Thank you so much --Confused Young Girl-- MY RESPONSE: I am confused about your confusion if this has been an ongoing issue for EIGHT YEARS. Young Lady, you either need to accept the fact that you are with a man who is not going to be respectful and faithful or take that man out of your life equation. He obviously knows how much this affects you and that it causes you pain. That should be enough for him to change his ways. But the fact that you are still with him tells him that he has no reason to change. You say that he is committed but I disagree. A true commitment means loving you more than he loves his ego. Good luck.
Posted on: Sun, 07 Dec 2014 01:09:12 +0000
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