Hey Folks, Here Is Another Good One That Has Me Stumped!!! I’ve been told that there are a number of single ladies who have their own homes, are educated and have very good paying jobs, but most of the men they meet are not in the same shoes. Of course, his spiritual life is of most importance, but what about after that? I’m told they don’t want to find themselves in a situation with a man who’s living paycheck to paycheck, has no retirement, no savings and is in debt. Response: I dont want a man for what he has because as most of us stated we are already well off. I want a man to be just that a MAN to do the things that I cant do, the things that dont even cost money. But when I enter a relationship all I know is for myself I dont want to be struggling in any area that I have an expectancies in so if I not able to be or give that which I ask; then I my own belief is I will wait till I am ready and can be a total package. Then if we see that we can both bring something to the table and draw into a commitment then I can teach him in the areas of finance and maybe its simply he doesnt know how to make sound financial decisions or hasnt had to. I will visit the situation with him when the time is right and ask the questions needed to help. Because what IS NOW IS NOT NECESSARY WHAT IS TO BE!!! WHEN WE DO THAT WE CAN CAUSE OUR SELF TO MISS OUT ON THE VERY MAN GOD INTENDED FOR US TO BE WITH!!! Do you agree with their thought process? Would they be settling? Should they just wait on what they really want? P.S. but waiting doesnt mean that you cant enter into a courtship until it time for an relationship. You cant be my MAN until YOU CAN BE MY FRIEND!!!!
Posted on: Sat, 05 Apr 2014 17:45:01 +0000
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