Hi Tina got something I need to post on ya page for my best friend so please hide my ID. She is 26 n her fiance is 28. They dated for over 5years b4 he proposed n took some lobola mid last year. She discovered he had been cheating on her with some gal she had infact introduced him to in april last year n they broke up for abt 2 wks,he proposed and paid a sum towards the lobola a few months later. She got pregnant n discovered he was still cheating. Unfortunately, she miscarried at 4months and lost hope in life,she was hospitalised coz she was depressed and suicidal. She called off the engagement but the man apologised and a few months later,on 2014 eve they got back. He promised her change and she believed him. In may,she found out he was cheating on her with a lady aged 30,one he admitted sleeping with in the time she broke off the engagement but promised that he had totally stopped sleeping with her even before they got back. Families came together and resolved the problems,encouraging the young couple to be faithful to eachother and God. Last weekend,he lied to her that he went to see his friends and left her at his house as she had gone to help clean and do his laundry. She left the house to go to the salon nearby only to find him with the same lady drinking at an open pub with his cousins and friends. She went over and sat there and even had a drink. The other woman was visibly upset too. She drove off after a while and called him. She got his phone and found 2 calls before and after a text that read anyway,js know that I have missed my pees. She doesnt want to leave him coz she loves him but something is telling her to just leave for good this time. She asked him abt the text and all he answered was she was just upset and knew u would probably read that text. They had a nasty fight that night.she has hope that maybe he will change but what if he doesnt. She came to me for advice coz she is afraid to tell her family who will certainly discourage her from marrying him. They are scheduled to wed early next year. Please advise.
Posted on: Tue, 01 Jul 2014 08:51:53 +0000
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