Hka bra wa hkyen ai Dinghku ni myit yu ra ai lam. USA hta 2008 ning hta la lu ai jahpan hta,dinghku 40%gaw lam amyu myu a jaw,hka bra mat ai lam mu chye lu ai.makam masham grat dagra n’nga ai ,makam kri dung ai lam nau n’ngang ai dinghku ni the Karai n’nga ai ngu hkam la ai ni hta grau hkabra chye ai lam mu lu ai.Protestant hpung hta dinghku 5 kaw na 1 gaw ding hku de ai hpang 5 ning na jang hka mat n’na,Roman Ctholic hpung masha ni hta dinghku 3kaw na 1 gaw 5 ning grai n’na yang hka bra mat ai hpe mu lu ai.15 ning grin ai dinghku pyi n’nga ai daram rai mat sai tim,UK /Australia /Japan hkan gaw loi naw hkyam sa tsamai ai lam mu lu ai. Anhte hkrstan dinghku ni gaw Karai Kasang e nan matut da ya sai dinghku ni re jaw n’hka hkra lawu de na lam matsat hpe sung sung myit dinglit la lu na matu the ,tinang nan sharai shading la lu na,mara raw sadi dung ngang grin ngwi pyaw ai hkristan ding hku byin wa lu hkra lawu de na lam yan ni hpe dinglun ahkrai yu ga. Dinghku hkabra wa chye ai lam [ 8.] (Ref;The 8 most common reasons for divorce,man living } 1-Lack of commitrment—Dinghku la/Num langai hku n’hkam la ai jaw dinghku hkabra ra ai gaw No,1 dinghku hkabra ra ai a n’pawt manghkang re,n’dai manghkang a jaw hkabra ra ai gaw 62% nga ai.dinghku la/num ni gaw madu jan/La- ni dinggai dingla si ten du nga na myit n’hkam la ai,hka nawng mu shagu lagaw kashin mayu ai.simai hkum hkra sha mayu ai.shinggyin jet ai myit jasat rawng ai.dinghku kata lit n’kam la ai,dinghku bungli n’kam galaw ai,dinghku la/num shada da lit n’kam la ai,kangka htip lahti n’hkam la ai.dinghku bungli galaw na myit n’lawm ai,myit shau shi shap ai.gumhpraw n’kam tam ai dinghku ni gaw hkabra na shadang grau law ai. 2-Too much arguing >56% shada da kawng n’dum hkat ai,ahkyak n’la hkat ai hkungga manu shadan ai lam n’nga ai a jaw gali ga law ga htan hpai shai rukrak hkat ai nang shoi nangsha dangrang hkat ai,langai the langai n’chye na hkat ai,n’chye tau ya hkat ai,langai mi a myit masa ningmu hpe n’chye hkam la ai,dum dum hti hti si manyi myit nyem ai shagrit shanyem ai the bawngban jahkrup n’lu hkat ai,dinghku gamung dup n’lu ai,dinghku kata simsa ai lam n’lu ai.[ One of the primary reasons arguments perpetuate is because you’re not understanding ,appreciating or validating your partner’s perspective One you can begin to appreciate reality different from your own you’re on the way to de-escaiating conflict and finding solutions ] 3-Infidelity> 55% shadang gaw madu jan madu la shada sadi n’dung hkat ai shingdu yin re the ningnan tam sawk sek ai,myit n’se ai,num la sadi hkyen n’na ,laga ni the n’se n’sa ra marai nga ai,madu hkum manu n’shadan ai.ngang gayut ai n’lu shazim ai, myit n’lu hkang ai,hka kashin kau jang mara n’lu ai zawn ang ai the numla ganawn mayu ai myit rawng ai, shawa n’hkun masha u rum dap shatai mayu ai.manu dan dik ai ja n’dum hpe ana n’hkun si n’hkun shatai ai.siri sadang n’tawn ai. 4-Marrying too young > 45% sak naw kaji ai ten dinghku shang ai ni gaw htauli htaula myit n’dep shi ai pyaw na hpe sha myit malawng ai anhte Jinghpaw ni la tsun chye ai N-2 sha naw chye ai,dai ni gaw 10 ning lapran ma 2 lu ai ten hkabra mat chye ai.asak 20 ning ja dinghku de ai ni 35% shadang hkabra chye ai jaw hkrungran ai hta hkabra ai shadang mung law ai.dinghku a mayak manghkang hpe n’chye tau nau ai.dinghku kata masing ningmu n’tawn n’nga ai jaw asak shi ning jan hta dinghku de ai ni gaw hkabra loi ai. 5-Unrealistic Expectations >44% shadang dinghku hkabra ai lam gaw n’mai byin ai hpe myit mada na dinghku de ai.myit marin lawhpa ai myit, madang ginhka hkat ai,shingran yup mang zawn dinghku de ai.shata jan hta dinghku de ai zawn hka kata sumla soi marit ai, n’mai byin ai hpe ra marit myit mada ai.atan ahpa sha sawn n’na dinghku de ai. 6-Lack of Equality >Kang dang n’bung ai madu atsam marai the n’bung ai,n’dang lu ai lam hpe dating shakut galaw taw nga ai dinghku gaw 44% shadang hkabra ai the makam n’bung malu masha nga sat ngasa n’bung myu n’bung ga n’hkrum, ra sharawng ningmu n’hkrum hkat ai shada, wa lang gale ai lagawn lale ai kagu kamoi kanyi katsa the n’rum ai. 7-Lack of preparation >shada da hkyen lajang jahkrum jahkra ningmu garan hkat ai lam n’nga ai dinghku de ai the per-marital counseling ngu ai ra ahkyak dik ai.shada da kara hku ra awng sharawng ai, dik dik kaning re malu masha ,kaning ningsam n’ra ai lam tau hkrau bawng jahkrup ra ai the hkut hkut nai nai n’hti n’htang langai the langai myit ginlen jahkrup tawn ai lam n’nga ai dinghku de ai ni gaw 41% shadang hkabra ai. 8-Abuse [domestic violence ]>29% Dinghku kata tawsa ai,adup ai,tsun ai hku dasang n’galaw ai madat mara lam n’nga ai n’kaw hkat ai , n’sha ra ai hpe dasang sha shangun ai.dingsa ai tawsa dan ai.ningyun buk n’sawn n’ang ai arung arai jahten dan ai,hkum tut ta tut adup htawng ai,kawa ai,amya makyit shahpye ai,htu galau gyit hkang zingri ai,hkindit abye ai,shagreng ai,dinghku lagut galaw ai madu myit n’rawng ai,mu ninglen n’mu masu ai,chye nga na n’chye ai zawn nga dan ai.arung arai ni kabai jahten dan ai,shahkrit shama ai,dam ningma lu hkra galaw ai,shagyip shagyeng n’sawn n’ang hkang gayin sha ai,gumshem du zawn hkaw hkm zawn hkang gayin sha mayu ai,dinghku N/L shada hpang hkan mayun mada asoi ai n’tsen ai,dunghku N/L shada n’gawn n’sawn sawt ai myit rawng ai,ding hpring ai lam n’nga ai,lu sha n’mai sha hkra galaw ai,nanghpan tsa chyaru lu ai,hkam lam n’nga hkra galaw ai,myit puba ai lam,hkrit kahpra chye ai,myit daw myit kaji, myit n;gun yawm hkra galaw ai,malu masha majoi joi dasang shanaw shahpaw sha dan ai. Anhte shinggyin masha ni gaw lahta de na lam yan ni hpe chye nga ninglen shut chye nga ga ai dum ladum hka yawng chye nga ga ai.n’dai zawn dinghku kata ningyun bu tawsa kasu kabrawng zingri adup ajin ai hpe sinna dan ni n’chye na n’hkam la ma ai.ya she rawt jet wa ai mungdan ni hta gaw dinghku kata kasu kabrawng tawsa ai hpe htung langai zawn malawng naw hkap la ai hpe mu lu ai.Tara ritkawp the yu ga nga yang madu mungdan a tara the dawdan je yang chye nga ma ai. Uneself a jahpan hta [ http;//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_viotence] dinghku N/L law malawng dinghku kata kasu kabrawng tawsa ning yun buk adut ajin jahten zingri galaw ngut ai hpang madu n’shut ai lam ningdang tang shawn chye ai.ga shadawn;[ n’dai kaw chye na hkra Jinghpaw laika the sha mungdan mying hpe ka na]Afrikannitsatan,90%-Jawdan 87%-Mali 86%-GiNi 86% -Lau 81% Central Aftican Republic 80% Tajitsatan mungdan na myu shayi ni gaw 62.4% gaw madu wa hpe n’tsun ai shing gan pru hkrup jang adup zingri katut ai.68 % shadang madu wa hpe ga htan dang rang hkat jaw adut abye zingri hkrum ai.47.9% gaw madu wa the hkum shan ganawn na n’hkraw jang zingri adut abye katut ai.n’dai lam ni gaw mungdan n’kau mi hta ahkaw ahkang jaw tawn tim sinna dan law malawng hta gaw dinghku tawsa ning yun but adut ajin zingri ai hpe tsa ban 19 daram kaw na ahkaw ahkang n’jaw sai.dai re majaw tawn da ai mungdan tara ritkawp hpe chye nan chye ra nga ga ai. N’dai ni gaw annau ni sadi i nga ai,ru sai labau chye ai,myu tsaw mung tsaw ai ,mungdan hpe hpawn ba lu ai dinghku byin lu hkra shakut ga. [Baren Numraw] [matut n’na num yaw la yaw ai masa hpe naw la hti ga.] machya ra ai lam ni re the hkristan dinghku ni sadi shan yu ra ai lam re,lam shagu hpe hkam sharang shading sharai n’na sari rawng mangan nga re dinghku ni rai lu hkra,makam kri dung ai,kas
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