How to Become a Perfect Man She has always made me feel like I was the most amazing man on Earth. She has always looked at me like I was the most beautiful man she has ever seen. She has always told me things that would make someone feel so proud of himself. She has made me realize that I was the man that I thought I wasnt. Yet I think that I was the most imperfect one that she has found. I have always been the overly sensitive one, something thats unlikely of a man. I have always been noticeably vulnerable even to her slightest mistakes. Being super sensitive was perhaps the major problem I have been dealing with since we met each other. It was the most imperfect imperfection of all my imperfections. I was sometimes too irritating, indecisive, annoying, and even demanding. The worst thing about these imperfections was their effect on her most of the time. She gets hurt when I tell her Im hurt. She weeps when I weep. She frowns when Im confused. She shakes her head when Im mad. Its painful to see the one I love shedding a tear because of me, looking down because of me or upset because of me. It was in those situations that I wish that I could inflict punishment to myself, knowing that Im hurting a precious gift from God with my pathetic sensitivity. But the best thing about being imperfect is that with my imperfections, I grow more in love with her. Because of my imperfections, my longing for her deepens. With all my flaws, I learn to connect even better to her. Its because with these flaws, I am able to see how she looks at them, touches them and still chooses to love them. She notices yet doesnt mind. She gets held back yet never gets tired. She knows how stupid I can be yet still longs to be with me. She stares at them and understands. I have always shown the imperfect me yet she sees a perfect one. She completes me. This could be the reason why an ordinary man can be extraordinary, and how a seemingly imperfect man can become perfected. Its by finding the right set of eyes that only the right woman has. So to all the men out there, I hope youre all reading this. Once you have found a woman like this, its surely one of the ultimate signs of Gods love for real men, so better get your act together. Treat her like she was treating you: with total respect, genuine sincerity and the purest love. Listen to her in the majority of the time you spend together, and stare at her for the rest of it. Tell her how much she means to you even in the most awkward moments. Say the words I love you in moments that shes not expecting it. Tell her that shes beautiful even when she thinks like shes a complete mess. Hold her hand when shes in pain and give her that broad shoulder she needs to lean on at that moment. Laugh with her even with the corniest jokes but if you cant, answer back with a cheesy response. Pull off romantic plans even when theres no occasion.Appreciate even her littlest gestures of love and be vocal to her about it. Admit your mistakes every time you commit them and court her right away to win her smile back. Make her feel that shes the most important person in your life and not just a past-time or an option. Stare at her when other women tries to win your eye. And above all, try to win not just her favor, but also ultimately the favor of the One who has sent her to you. Manifest your love for her even when shes not around, because her Father watches. He knows. Dont: Say that youll love her forever. Do: Act that youll love her forever. Dont be misguided. Those are just guidelines. The lady being mentioned is the answer to the title. Its because of a lady like her that even the most imperfect man can become the most perfect spectacle in the universe. A woman is the perfection of an imperfect man. Brad Pitt was right in saying that a woman is a reflection of her man, and I think it surely goes the other way too; a man is a reflection of his woman. Thats what makes a man beautiful. P.S. I have just used the first, second and third person perspective in a single message: I, you, him/her, it. If youre a Grammar-Nazi, you would have noticed. Haha. But if you can relate, you simple wouldnt care and just feel the love. :) Mr. Author 2011 Faculty of Arts and Languages
Posted on: Mon, 25 Aug 2014 05:10:01 +0000
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