I am in love with Hobsons choice. I learned about saying no to partial matches (via a Hobsons choice) at CLW from Steve Pavlina. My Hobsons choice permission slip was solidified by a post Bryan Reeves created about something either being a hell yes or a hell no (step out of the grey area). I used to be devoted to unconditional love. I thought unconditional love meant I had to accept everyone into my life, as is, and always be as sweet as honey regardless of how they behave. Honestly, that broke my heart over and over again. Its kind of like taking clients for free...what does that say for my clients who pay? What kind of sacred value does that give them? Another example is my friend circle. The people who are close to me are there for a reason. They love very well. If I let someone in who doesnt love me well what kind of respect am I showing to the rest of my friends? Partial matches take up space and block anything better and more aligned from coming in. And yes, I am still as sweet as honey, I just dont let everyone in close to receive the fullness of that honey. That honey is reserved for full matches who mirror my love back to me. I realized that I have to love myself unconditionally first . Which means honoring my lifestyle preferences, 100%. And if someone wants me to make an exception, hell no. It takes a lot of energy to be courageous and do what I do. I choose to have people around who support and energize my path in the way I know I deserve, period. Now, if something/someone feels great and energizes me, I say a loud, passionate, clear yes. If it doesnt, I say no. Im loving this. My life is filled with lovers. Everywhere I go I am winning. My relationships are winning. My business is winning. My home life is winning. Hobsons choice, baby.
Posted on: Fri, 12 Sep 2014 21:36:02 +0000
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