I could love if a relationship was a zero-sum game. The supposed “love” partners in relationship claim they have for each other looks interestingly fickle to me. I believe love is delusional or a perfect reason for couple to continue down a relationship in a state of absolute denial. Sometimes if there isn’t any reason for a particular action in life, there must be something conjured up to justify the existence of such actions. In a perfect relationship, love plays that role. Love distracts confused partners about the need to seek recourse on any unsettled issue in a relationship. Eg; While VALARIE wants JOHN to spill out all the skeleton in his closet, John talks more about where to go for a honey moon vacation after their marriage ceremony; eventually killing Valarie’s appetite to know more about John’s past life since she is entice much more about how to and where to be for her honey moon vacation. Love can be the greatest card a man or a woman can hold in a relationship just as is done in poker games. As a desperate young guy and a money thirsty lady, why want I fake the impression of love to my innocent and confuse partner if there is much more gains in it than losses. Artistically fooling him around under a fake impression that I love him widen my prospects of getting very close to his fortune therefore love can be the only card I hold so far if I want to win in the game of poker (relationship). The scenario above also clearly depicts how love can economical and profitable if you hold all the bargaining chip. Love makes committed partners look weak and despair in terms leverage. A partner may lose whatever leverage he is left with in a relationship if he decides to embark on a loving spree. The very essence of been in love is that, you give your partner more leverage to exploit your weakness much deeper. Love is a weakness that can ever cripple a man in a relationship. well because of love, the authority of a guy as the man in a relationship is sorrowfully undermine by his failure to do anything that can reverse the love his partner has for him. Any stringent position a man takes in a relationship to make things right is measured against the love he has for his partner specifically base on the narrative of his partner. At the end of it all, in state of contemplating a man subjects himself to two alternatives WHETHER TO CONTINUE DOWN THE LINE OF LOVING OR WALK AWAY FROM IT ALL TO REGAIN HIS COMPOSURE AS A MAN SOMEWHERE ELSE. I bet you, the confused weak man will go for the initial status and sacrifice his God given authority at cost of Loving. But a good chess player as I am would walk away from it to regain my composure as a man to look sharp in order tread right for the next chess move in the next game (relationship). Better question your love for your partner before you let yourself into this brainwashing debacle of our century. Never confuse impulsive rush for a guy or a lady to be love. Love doesn’t exist, unless maybe there is an uterior motive existing under the very wings of love.
Posted on: Wed, 05 Nov 2014 17:11:11 +0000
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