I feel really bad for my future wife, cause shes going to have to deal with my late night conversations. I can see her now. Whats going on inside that head of yours?. Obviously my response is...You and those yoga pants. My mind races like crazy at night, its ridiculous. Tonight I was thinking about why we spend so much time planning a wedding, and not enough time planning a marriage. Maybe the answer is that you cant plan a marriage, its too expansive. What I mean is, there is too much going on to make any plans, you have to just find the right person and go with the flow. You cant be too structured and plan every little detail of life, you have to leave room for adaptation and spontaneity. I read a quote once that said, The surest way to make a marriage fail is to try and control it.... And I guess I agree. But, it is indeed lifes ultimate adventure. Getting married and having kids, starting your own section of the family tree. I guess while you cant make any plans per se, you do have to talk and have a plan for things. What happens if someone loses a job? What happens if the house burns down? What happens if someone gets sick? What sort of education do we want the children to receive? Where are your yoga pants? Things like that...those you have to have some sort of plan for, and adapt as you go. And trust that God will guide you, and that youll be able to get through anything, even the worst. If youre married to the right person, you will. Just some thoughts. I was also thinking about how I want to see TV On The Radio in October in San Francisco. If anyone is down, let me know. Hope all is well. youtu.be/qipaFDNxF4s
Posted on: Thu, 28 Aug 2014 07:02:18 +0000
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