I gave up on dating a long time ago. Maybe Im wrong for asking this, but are there any men who knows what true honesty is? Yeah, yeah, they always start off being everything we seek in our particular guy but, the side-effects began to show. In the beginning, he said,Im single! Later on, some random woman is calling your phone saying, Im his wife/baby mama! And ladies, the last thing you should do is argue with her. That battle should be with the man that lied to you both. In the beginning, he said,I have a couple of children. Later on, you find out that hes wanted in every state for child support. In the beginning, he says,I work midnights. Now that may go two ways, either hes telling the truth or hes in a relationship/married and say midnights because he knows that he cant stay all night with you. So the midnight job (which is his family at home) is a way to keep the suspicion level down. Another lie thats been used is,I live with my mother/father, and I dont want to disrespect their home. Lol...In the beginning, he may say that he has a job making big money. Later on, you find out hes the biggest, brokest Bum youve ever crossed paths with in fact, hes always broke or always need to borrow from you. Me, myself, its not about a mans money, looks, job, or automobile, its the quality of the man. I feel if hes a good quality man, hell automatically come equipped with all the necessities that is required by the nature of a real man. Is he respectful, considerate of your thoughts and feelings? Even if he doesnt have much to give, is he willing to share the little-bit that he does have? What would he really be like without his cute face and expensive gear? And are you willing to be that way for him likewise? Yes ladies, you have a role to play as well. Have some class about yourself, be confident and already know that you are beautiful(you dont need a co-signer to tell you that youre beautiful). But please understand, beauty isnt your hair, makeup, your ass or your face. What would you be like without your pretty face, weave, makeup, wide hips or big-booty? What is the inner you like? Do you shine with positive energy when youre in a males sight? Probably not, because some womens attitude is so STANK, that it kills your whole image. If theres ever a time a man thats not your type approach you, please, do not be rude to him. Just smile and say,Thank you, but Im not available. See how easy that is? That way, you wont offend him, and if hes a gentleman, he step away respectfully. I can admit, Ive done some dumb things, and Ive made dumb decisions in my life. And Ive had several Mr. Wrongs in my life. But, you better believe, the man that God wants me to have is gonna be Mr. RIGHT ON TIME. Good men do exist, just hard to come by. Some of you actually already have one, and dont deserve him. I only respect men who try very hard for everything. In closing, Id like to say this,Ladies, you were blessed with intuition, USE IT WISELY! And keep your personal love life business off of Facebook! With lots of love, M. Christian
Posted on: Thu, 03 Apr 2014 04:16:00 +0000
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