I hear more and more vendors, nice people, people who do some of the same stuff I do, modeling, hair textures, clothes, etc. they are complaining that X other vendor is talking shit, in public, or FB, whatever, same thing, and it has happened to me, whether or not you are named in said post is irrelevant - you either know it is about you or you find out it is. That. Is. Tacky. Let me tell you a secret many seem to have not figured out. 1) it makes you as a vendor look bad, and if you are not a vendor you still look bad. 2) you make vendors wonder OMG is that about me?! And cause stress not only to the person you may have aimed it at, but others who you havent. Not cool. Many of us have kids, and enough stress in our lives, you dont know the battles we fight - so stop causing people stress. 3) it makes you look jealous, even if you are not. That is how it looks. People talk shit to make themselves feel better, and because they are jealous or afraid of that other person doing well or better than them. If someone is talking shit about you, you must be doing something right, pat yourself on the back. 4) you lose support. Many people, myself included, wont buy from shit talkers or use their products in promos unless we have to. I certainly wont support you, unless I have to use said product for some drastic reason, and I will stick your work in a folder and not touch it. You will lose customers if they see you talking crap, they wonder who is this person and who are they talking about!? And what do they say about me when I am not looking? 5) its lame. Its a waste of time. No one cares. Instead of complaining about someone else, work on your own stuff. You are in competition with NO ONE BUT YOURSELF. No this is not directed at ANYONE. Its just a few reminders for those who continue to belittle other people, for no reason other than they are bored and jealous. So take up basket weaving and leave everyone else alone. You only end up making yourself look like a loser. Talk to someone in private who you trust and get your frustrations out, save FB and public for other things - trying to take someone down in public is just super dumb. Have a nice day :)
Posted on: Wed, 23 Jul 2014 15:54:50 +0000
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