I spoke with my son tonight , and I got updated by the nurse about his day and how he was . He has had uneventful days since he got there....well , I wonder why? Could that be because he doesnt have a problem that he needs to be in a Psychiatric Hospital for? That could be why ! Maybe , he just needed out of the environment that he is in at home!......I spoke with the hospital social worker yesterday as well, she informed me that he isnt doing any acting out at school or anywhere else, only at home , and he only gets violent with his brothers..........WELL let me tell you , if I had someone watching me like this when I was younger , for all of the crap I did to my little brother, I would have been locked up and thrown away the key! No Joke!.................I was also informed that, most likely if there are no papers ( custody papers ) produced while he is in there, then they will go by whatever my ex husband tells them they can do....thats really frickin comforting. This all sounds like either , A: a plan to ruin my sons credibility by making him out to be the unstable child, so he cant be taken seriously if something is going wrong with him at home. or B: Hes just flat out pissed off and wants to come home and knows its not right and hes miserable in his surroundings so he is only being bad at home . AND THEY CANT HANDLE HIM AT HOME. SO they want to lock him up!....I find it to be a bunch of bull that he cant get in his car and drive the 1 to 2 hour drive to see his son that he cares so much about. Im 5 hours away in Chicago , Im waiting it out until Monday to see whats going to go on or if he is going to be released after the weekend. If they keep him any longer you can bet your ass that this mama is going to drive 5 hours and camp outside that hospital , just to be there during visiting hours , for those of you who know me know I will! And those of you who dont know me, dont think I wont lol I will not abandon my child . If you seriously cant make that short trip to see him , especially on a weekend that you arent working , then I dont know if parent is the right word to describe you ......I dont think I would have left that city and probably would have got the nearest room I possibly could...but then again , I love and care for my children and I know how to handle them so THIS WOULD HAVE NEVER HAPPENED IN THE FIRST PLACE WITH ME!........................on another note , I also spoke to my other 2 sons and while I was on the phone with my oldest , they are telling him to tell me about his award he received from the school for getting good grades ( because he had great grades here , and since being there his grades have dropped dramatically along with my son that is in the hospital) Anyways, he proceeds to argue with his step mom saying , No I didnt get an award , I got 2 Fs!......I have news for you people ( meaning my ex and his wife and family ) My babies are smart , they are very strong , and they are part of me ! They may lie to me IN FRONT OF YOU , but the minute they get away from you , they will tell me anything their little hearts desire! So , go ahead and think you are brainwashing them , it doesnt matter, they will always run to mama and tell her anything they think they should and they will not hide anything for anyone or lie to me about anything so they can just forget that!.............I want everyone to know I dont mean to sound cocky or bitter, Im just FED UP . Its horrible how people will do this...........a direct message I would love to give them is , you using children as pawns is sick You reap what you sew , and one of these days its going to backfire, you dont know the damage you are doing. They arent pets or toys , they are MY children.
Posted on: Sun, 02 Feb 2014 06:23:00 +0000
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