I was in a four year long relationship, I thought she was the one, I had even proposed her for marriage. And It was all planned out, we were supposed to get settled in the next 2 years. Then I left the city for a job in a different city, everything was going good, everything was fine, but then all of a sudden the communication started to decrease, we were still talking but the calls reduced to once in a week, the texts reduced to the customary Good morning and Good Night, That period was a crunch period in my career, there was a situation at my work, I was doing frequent all-nighters, still I tried to contact her, talk to her every day, but she always said she was busy or studying. I genuinely believed everything she said, but this was irritating, one day I called her up, and asked her what was wrong, she again repeated that she was busy. I still genuinely believed her. One fine morning, I received a call from her, she said she wanted to talk to me about our relationship, I agreed to talk, but since I was at work, I said Id do it later. But this call of her made me anxious, I texted her, ME: Any problem? SHE: Lets discuss it in the call ME: Youre scaring me, tell me whats wrong? SHE: I want this relationship to end. This came out of the blue for me, I managed to control my shock ME: Did your parents say anything? Trust me, Ill make them agree, Ill make everything alright. SHE: They dont know about you yet ME: Then ? SHE: I love someone else, he proposed me two days ago and I said yes. ME: Youre kidding right? I thought she was joking, I thought she would break this prank any moment and, but the only thing that broke that day was my relationship, and my plans with her. I didnt reply to her that day, I was shell shocked, I didnt know what to do, I continued with my work, all day expecting her to say that she was joking. I called her the next day, all she said was, I was never in love with you, I was in relationship you because denying your proposal 4 years ago for the things you had done for me would have been mean, I liked you, you are the best guy Ive ever met, but I am not in love with you Me: But you couldve told this to me the day you started feeling this! She: I didnt know how to do that. Me: You said yes to that guy before breaking up with me? She: Its my personal life, dont interfere in it, and dont try to do anything stupid, dont do anything that would ruin my life, I love that guy from my soul and I want to be with him forever Me: Im not a bloody psycho and you said that for me once. and I disconnected the phone. It was hard to accept this for the next whole month, I thought of leaving my job, I felt cheated,my past four years were a lie,all my plans had vaporized, I didnt know what to do, I was depressed, but it is because of some amazing friends and my parents I got over it, I didnt do anything stupid or crazy. Today Im a very happy single, I have a great job with a great pay, I am living my dream, I intend to do all the stuff I missed out in these 4 years and had to give up to get settled. Things I learnt: Sometimes the people you trust the most are the ones wholl stab you. Never plan anything to do anything too far in the future, because the future you plan is not always the future that happens. There is always a hidden Conditions apply after the word Forever Friends before girlfriends/boyfriends should be the standard, they were the one who helped me recover. I am emotionally very strong, I had never expected this relationship to end, and I had always thought if this happened, Id die, but here I am writing a very long answer. - Ashish Jhanwar
Posted on: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 05:41:56 +0000
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