If you are on the road to Success as a woman dont let no man be of convenience of you. If you work hard, see your dreams an your goals, or providing for your children you dont want a man who doesnt have the same goals. You shouldnt have to provide for him, work while he lay around, cook when he doesnt help out! Dont waist ya time! Im no expert but I know when looking for a man for me one day. Except me and my child, be as driven as me, cause we put god first. And be apart of my success and I will do the same! Someone once asked me Shalonda youre not married yet? No I am not just because someone has a child does not mean they have to be married, it was never my intentions for it to be this way but God has another plan for me! I had to learn, I had some growing up to do, I needed to learn how to struggle an to survive but he has tested me several of times, I have been to my lowest in life with dealing with Sickle Cell Anemia since I was 4 years old its a pain that takes over your body that If you dont have it you will never understand! Its not cancer but it should be talked about just as much and everyone should know what it is as many mixed babies being born in this world today! Educate ya self so ya child will know what it is! Get tested for it u might not think you have it but it comes from ya blood line down the line of the history of ya family! Now I figured when I go to college my life was gonna get better I will be successful at 25 I would be married at 26. Total opposite my first 2 years in the hospital multiple times! Cause I was use to my mommy being there helping me through my crises eventually I had to learn that shes nt always gonna be around and I would be in that hospital bed alone but I had god! It made me fail classes where I had to start over, took me 5 years to graduate then my senior year I went off got pregnant I made it harder for my self then! And being prego and going to school is possible ladies it can happen and I went to school at 9am and left at 10 pm taking the train an buses back home by myself everyday! Took myself to my doc apts! As a single mother sometimes you cant be mad because you knew the consequences you just didnt know it was gonna be as hard! But in the end it makes us Stronger and more empowered then we ever been in our life! And I thank God everyday now for my struggles because its made me who I am and see clearer. This message was for someone out there today. I dont know why I woke up and this is what I felt I needed to say this! Yall have a blessed day!
Posted on: Thu, 24 Apr 2014 14:52:09 +0000
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