If you find yourself at war with someone at the moment, ask yourself how can you bring peace to this situation? This doesnt mean caving in to the other persons demands or changing your stance just to suit them. It means that maybe you need to stand back emotionally or mentally, and see what is REALLY going on. When you stop being a part of the war, it often will change the energy between you and the other person, particularly if they expect you to keep fighting. See what the hidden agenda is in the energy between you. Is it just creating drama for dramas sake? Does the other person keep moving the goal posts to see how you react? Are they really wanting a resolution to the problem? You cant control what others do nor can you determine what energy they choose to bring to the situation. But, you can control what you do or say. It does take a lot of strength to walk away or not get involved in the power plays. It also takes courage to not walk into a fight angry. You cannot bring peace to the other person if they do not want it. But, you can bring peace to yourself.
Posted on: Mon, 04 Aug 2014 02:48:03 +0000
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