It is better to be feared than to be loved. - (Nichollo Marchiavelli) Good Morning, Greats...Mind Im sure not everybody would agree with this,... But this quote is so realistically true that we see it play out everyday. Though, it is un-christian, It still typifies a standard worldly wisdom which every living human needs most of the time. Yes, they say Girls love bad guys, While nice guys carry last. Everybody believe this is true, but its not everyone that understands the principle at play there. Now, why do girls love bad guys and are these so called bad boys really bad ? When we say bad boys, it does not necessarily mean criminals. No. Infact, some of these so called bad boys have admirable values more than the so called nice guys. So why do girls fall for these kind of guys easily, more than the so-called nice guys. Its simple, The bad boys EMIT AN AURA OF FEAR, from which they play out their romance. Out of this very fear which they emit, Love comes to them when they show a girl some little care. Let me explain further. Women are sub-consciously SUBORDINATES, when it comes to the things of the heart. They crave for a man who would always be in control of situations. A man whom they would take soft (and if necessary,hard) orders from. A man whom they cannot predict his emotions, except for the fact that he loves and cares for them. THE SO CALLED BAD BOYS ARE LIKE THAT. They re not all-pleasing. They get angry with their girls when its necessary..... They pretend to be tough, even though most of them are weak. Their girls may know this, but they re ok with it. Women tolerate pretences so well. These guys also cry when hurt, this melts their womens heart. No woman can stand their cries. Above all, there is no dull moment with them. As for the nice guys, Hmmm... They re always looking for ways to please their girls, When they re offended, they dont show their anger for fear of losing the girl or hurting her. THIS IS A BIG WEAKNESS. They re too real, always showing themselves real as they are. A human being is naturally pliant and weak. A little pretences here and there can shore up their persona but they re oftentimes too open and dull. Nice guys are too assuring... Their women can always tell what they can do. A good example; A nice mumu, sorry, I meant to say guy, Just immediately, sends his woman airtime once she sends him an MTN call me, I need credit. But, a bad guy would call her to confirm, and sometimes become difficult in that regard. Oh Yes, A nice guy tries his best to spend on a girl, even when he is not having but while the bad guys spend on their own when they have, they lock up when they re not having.l They bad guys are just confident of themselves. A confidence that one would mistake for mistake. Finally, nice guys do not have an iota of an AURA OF FEAR around them. Their girls are never scared of losing them, hence, these girls run the relationships, much to their chagrin. Ladies inertly detest running their relationships. They need a BOSS in their lives. The nice guys are lacking in this area, Hence, girls find them boring. This explains why a hot chick would leave her nice and quiet boyfriend and go stick with a girl-battering guy somewhere. Its All About The Aura. But then, I have to say this; Nice guys are complete marriage materials. Their niceness is much needed in marriages. Their niceness is what women pray and fast for in marriages. So, if you re a nice guy, save your heart for your marriage. Relationships have so much rules nowadays that it has turned into a complete game. It can hardly favour you with your niceness. Unless, you become rough on the edges. Women fall for a guy more when he has an aura of fear around him...#Fact. This is why; though money seduces women, Power and Authority makes them totally submissive. Truely, Marchiavelli was right in this regard, It is indeed, better to be feared than to be loved.
Posted on: Sun, 19 Oct 2014 06:11:29 +0000
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