It is pointless to discipline or harshly deal with symptoms of behaviour without first listening to and paying deep attention to the inner cry that can lead us to the root of the problems. Once the root is uncovered and given appropriate attention... Healing flows naturally without any force or coersion necessary. Sadly we tend to only pay attention to the symptoms that are glaring at us, hence going around and around in never ending circles... Once the cause of the inner cry is heard and acceptance and appropriate attention is given... real peace and freedom from within will begin to be recognised and lived out. We are much more complex and deeper than just the unpleasant symptoms we display. We are the beautiful hearted, but wounded, whilst being pressured to put on, to try to force good behaviour whilst battling to cope with our individual pain. When actually what we need to hear is that we have always been good, but just not knowing how to deal with our internal pains and angers inflicted upon us since our childhood, and struggling to make sense of it all. We live in a harsh cruel world... We dont need more rejection, more pain, but more understanding and more empathy within safe loving boundaries where trust is not just a swear word. We are family and we can help one another to heal, here in our world.
Posted on: Wed, 05 Nov 2014 08:43:54 +0000