Ive tried so hard to ignore him...but I think he should know this...MARRIAGE IS NOT AN ACHIVEMENT.(point blank)! Its not a University degree, its not a science, neither is it an art. Its not like saving to buy a million dollar house or car. Its not like going to war and coming back alive. Its not a black belt in karate or judo or something in the same line. Its not a lottery win. Its not an invention, not an innovation, not a discovery, and even if it is, you won’t be the first person to make the discovery, neither will you be the first or last person to go down the line, and say ‘I do’. Many that have once said ‘I do’, later said ‘I don’t’, and left us all wondering what they were thinking when they first said ‘I do’. In fact, others have said ‘I do’ more than once, and as a result we do not bother anymore about whenever they choose to say the next ‘I don’t’. Plain and simple, I see it as part of life, and nothing more or less. I’m not angry, I’m just………….touched after being called an asshole and images of a cheap wedding ring...I need not say more..this dude thinks marriage is like buying the company u once worked as a slave boy and making your MD an employee in his own company. My question for today arises out of an observation I’ve made overtime with newly weds. You might have observed it too or it might happened to you. See, a friend, my guy, your guy, pal, gal, padi padi, close friend etc., (whatever name you call urselves)…….. gets married and suddenly his/her language changes overnight. Yes, its sudden, coz he/she wasn’t like ‘this’ before: suddenly, your friend cannot start, your friend cannot stop, neither can your friend continue an interesting conversation anymore without this ‘marriage’ thingy popping into the conversation…….. leaving me wondering ‘is this guy still ok?’ It pisses me off, and I’m like, what the hell is wrong with you? have you drank something you shouldn’t drink or what exactly. See, the guy who got married last month begins to talk about Marriage as if he’s a guidance counsellor who has been married for 50-years, He suddenly knows everything and becomes an unpaid adviser, my God! The girl who got married 2-months ago has become something else. I mean, where did the normal you run away to? I had to ask one of such this question sometime last week: Is Marriage an achievement? before he could cool down, press his breaks and come back to the real world. Anyway, pls help in pouring cold water on this question. What is so so so so special about marriage, is it an achievement? As I’ve said, it all but a necessary part of life, and when you g et there, the whole world should not fall down as far as old-time buddies are concerned, but just in case I might be wrong, your own opinions are welcome!. Culled from (mypenmypaper.wordpress) after a friend thinks marriage is like buying the company u once worked as a slave boy and making your MD an employee in his own company.
Posted on: Wed, 06 Aug 2014 08:32:38 +0000
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