Just for provocations sake: I dont believe in forgiveness, or to be more precise, that you can Will it. At some point the bitterness may vanish and you may be free of the negativity, but no matter what someone is told or they tell themselves will make you forgive. If you are hurt, the wound needs to heal. It will heal in its own time. Yes, you can help the healing or delay the healing, but time and uncontrollable influences play the far greater role. If you feel you can not forgive, do not blame yourself for it. All this talk about telling someone to forgive creates nothing but resistance and anger in someone who feels unable to forgive. Dont blame yourself, forget the wound as much as you can and focus on your present life. Everything else will be taken care of by natures natural course. You are not in control of forgiveness. --What do you think?
Posted on: Thu, 03 Apr 2014 03:16:22 +0000
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