Lets just get one thing straight... If you are trying to change someone to fit your mold you dont love that person. Instead what you love is the image of them in your mind meaning its really all about you. Loving someone has nothing to do with changing them, rather you accept them just the way they are. For example if as a parent you have a child with a disability maybe the disability is blindness. You wont force that child to tell you the color of your hair and then ridicule it when it does not know. You sure wont insult the child calling it BLIND because it does not see as you do. You will accept the child and its limitations.... at least I hope you do... This is who we all are in some way or fashion. None is perfect so labeling folk with derogatory terms and disparaging them because they are different from us is low, its unkind and very religious. Some of us cannot stand to be friends with people we dont find acceptable, I get that but I think if we took a second look we might find what is repulsive about that person also exist in us. Am not friends with you because you do everything perfect... am friends with you because I love you just the way you are. Thats what Love is... God is Love —BM
Posted on: Tue, 07 Oct 2014 20:10:07 +0000
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