[MINI RANT] Theres a common misconception/myth/lie that men are so flooded with testosterone they are incapable of staying faithful—and women just need to learn to live with it. The reality: Thats garbage. Firstly, theres nothing wrong with a man (or woman) dating or being romantically involved with multiple people... so long as BOTH people in the relationship are upfront about their activities and intentions. Whats needed is the integrity to state their intentions HONESTLY instead of hiding, lying, cheating and manipulating. The cold, hard reality: Those who cant remain faithful simply dont have the courage to stand up to their partner and say: Hey. Im not happy and I need to do something/someone else. Its a *choice* to honorable and be upfront about monogamy... anything else is either a cake-and-eat-it-too mentality... or cowardice. My advice to those looking elsewhere: Just tell them the truth. They might not like it, but at least you allowed them their dignity.
Posted on: Mon, 26 May 2014 19:37:55 +0000