Now what Im about to say may step on someones toes but Lord knows Im not trying to. As humans we get twisted up in our feelings sometimes. This I know but to bash someone on fb that you once loved, made Kids with, cared for at one time is crazy to me. It makes you look crazy to me. My momma, aunties, and grandma always told me to be careful who you have Kids with. Make sure hes worthy of being a father to your Kids. Thats what I did. Thats y pookie and rayray aint my babies daddy. Cause at some point you felt he was the one, cause you couldve kept the condom on and still got a nut ijs. As women we know we are strong creatures. Even if we dont know our strength. Its there. My granny. Also said momma baby, Daddy maybe. Meaning that child is YOURS! So if Daddy strays you still have to do for this child. My Daddy wasnt there and Ive never ever heard my mother talk about him being a deadbeat. Which he was And is. She just did her part. Then these cheerleaders be igging you on for the bs. If you cant get it in cs court then do your part. One thing about it. It will hurt that man in the long run To know he had nothing to do with the beautiful child that you raised, feed, clothed, cleaned, took to Dr. Appts, helped graduate school, saw them cry for him, bought things for when they needed it or just because. You have to be that phenomenal woman that you read about. What you carrying on for?? He still aint about to do nothing. And when that child grows up they would see their life probably was better without him anyway. They would know it was momma that stayed up worrying and praying about them. It was momma that went to bed with a lil to eat so they could be full. It was momma that made sure the bills was paid and they had clothes, shoes, hair cuts, hair done, etc. So be mindful of what youre doing to yourself. I say doing to yourself cause thats the only one getting hurt. These are jmt. Now you can carry on!!!
Posted on: Wed, 04 Jun 2014 13:27:45 +0000
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