O O O F F F... Bit of a breakthrough for a client just now. Hes been tangled up in some confidence issues that have held him back since his Uni days. The question was Is it that you dont feel confident or is it that you are afraid people will judge you? BAM its no.2! How much does what we *think* other people think mess with our plans and what we dare to want for ourselves? A scary big amount. And yet, can I let you in on some insight from the front line? People or They dont really care. They are too busy figuring their own sh*t out to worry about yours. Yeah, sure, you may get the odd comment or grumble when you decide to do what you really want but, on the whole, my best advice is Dont flatter yourself... your actions will never mean as much to others as they mean to you. And quite rightly so - its your bag, baby. Its not like youre Obama (or are you?!) You have the wiggle room to reclaim what you really want in your own unique way and, I for one, am RIGHT behind you!! So, whats it to be? The odd comment from yer mum or yer mates and yet living the life you always hoped? OR... Rigidly occupying your status quo with you nicely locked in your pigeon hole? Love Lucy xxx
Posted on: Fri, 19 Dec 2014 15:12:33 +0000
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