Okay.... I just got to Vent.... Do you ever have those days or moments, when you just DONT want to turn the other cheek anymore.....? If I knew or thought it would do any good, I would love to punch some people in the mouth.... Yes those people that are, back stabbing, gossiping, judgmental, trash talking, better than thou, jerks, and seek to hurt others, ...... especially those who do it to myself, my family, and anyone I care about, which is everyone.... I just dont understand why and what gratifications, they get out of it..... On occasion you will have a friend or someone close to you tell you things, that people do and say about you..... and it is so hard, not to get angry and go confront them, even if you do, these people will deny that they said or did it...Why? because they feel guilty... I know it is easy to get caught up in the trash talking, or gossip, or say something in conversation, that gets taken completely out of context.... Im willing to say, I know I have made mistakes and bad choices through out my life, and I may have been the guy who needed a punch in the mouth, If Ive ever hurt someone, or said something that hurt someone else, I want to say that I am sorry, truly sorry.. and I try to make it right ... There are so many things over the years, that I wish I could have a do over with, because I would change some of my choices if I could..... But there are many choices that I made, that may not have been a choice, some of you would of made..... and let me tell you, no one beats you up harder and more painful than we do ourselves...... So my message here is, stop trashing on others, dont judge others, and be that person who stops the rumor mill, who stops, the gossip, no matter how innocent you may think it is..... be that person who accepts people for who they are, and more than anything realize that ( WORDS ) do hurt.....sometimes we hurt others bad enough that, those of us who fall victim of the gossip, and rumors, start beating themselves up so bad, that they never recover, some even take their own life...... While those of us doing the bad mouthing, dont even realize how much hurt and pain we inflict...... I know what others say about me, is none of my business, but it dont hurt any less...... So please help others, by seeing the good in them, look for their strengths, and help them over come their weaknesses and help those around you, not to hurt others, by stopping someone in their tracks, when they start talking bad.... I know sometimes we see or hear about a bad choice, that someone made, and we cant wait to tell someone else about it...... Or we absolutely, distance ourselves from them like they are the evil of all evils..... Ask yourself what could I do to help that person not feel like they are bad, or alone in the world? Ask yourself if it was someone you love, would you defend them and help them? I recently found myself, in a conversation, where I said something about someone, that I thought may be up to no good, because of something, that person had said to me, not thinking about the consequences of my opinion, now I realized that I was in the wrong, and with, what I had said, that I thought they were up to no good, was a character assassination, that they didnt deserve, in fact I didnt think anything of it, until later on, how my opinion and words could have destroyed this person, in the eyes of his peers..... So back on point here..... Please stop rumors, please stop judging, and remember we all make mistakes, and lets all help each other, to feel like they are loved, or are equal to yourself, everyone please see the good in everyone...... and try to stop the cycle of hurt and pain to others.......
Posted on: Fri, 26 Dec 2014 12:40:06 +0000
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