Please I need your advice because am going mad right now...I have been married for 5yrs now and dated my husband for 2yrs before we got married.all through our courtship I tested,I watched him and never caught him with any woman.I decided to settle down with him.only one month into our marriage I startad seeing names of different girls calling him,even at odd hours.I asked him,he said he doesnt have anything with them and I couldnt do anything because I dont have any evidence.he started sleeping outside at least 3-4x in a week and I was pregnant with our 1st baby.I called everybody I know to talk to him,they all did but he told me pointblank that no one can tell him how to live his life.7months into my pregnancy I found out he has infected me with staph..when I told him what he has done,he started crying and I hoped he was going to stop but never did.I have left him several times,he keeps coming to my house to cry and my parents will beg me to go back because of our catholic faith but my siblings always object.to the extent my siblings disowned me.I didnt want to leave him then because I dont have a job and didnt want to be a liability to me,so I had to stay with my husband and pray that he changes..after my NYSC I started planning seriously to leave him for Good,only to find out that am pregnant again..with our 2nd child..since then life has been hell for me,he sleeps out almost all the night now.I dont know if he has a family outside or he just enjoying life.I have asked him If I ever did something to him,he always says no and that he doesnt know what is making him live that way.I am due and expecting labor to start any minute,yet he sleeps outside and leaves alone at this time.I have thought of killing him but the thought of his ghost following me is scaring me.There is no female name my husband has not slept with without condoms.some of them even calls me to insult me.Please mt brothers and sisters..can such a person ever change or am I just playing with life? Submitted by Amanda
Posted on: Tue, 30 Sep 2014 22:10:09 +0000
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