***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend. We were together a year. The emotional and physical abuse was something else. I dealt with getting back handed in the face to being punched in the ribs so hard I passed out. Why didnt I leave? I was afraid. This was the guy who described to me in detail what hed do to me if I ever left him. It was something out of a drug cartel torture scene. Terrifying. He needed to know where I was at all times. Hed call me at work to make sure I was there, if I didnt answer Id have to give an explanation as to why I didnt answer and where I was when he called. This guy monitored my bank accounts and cell phone account because he was that good at manipulating me and getting what he wanted from me. I broke up with him because Id reached my breaking point after my hair started falling out and I lost drastic amounts of weight. Id constantly catch myself looking over my shoulder because I know eventually hes coming for me. Hell catch me at my most vulnerable moment. The last time I received a phone call from his phone, a female called me and told me shes been with him for 3 years and hes not gonna leave her for me. Let me just say this about that, it is impossible for her to have been with him for this past year. We were always on the phone, we were always together, all the time. His phone was never off, he always answered and he always kept me close by. but anyway, she claims to be so happy with him but she and him both continue to blow up my phone all day for days at a time. I cant change my number because this is a work phone. Ive filed countless police reports and have given them both many warnings... I mean, if shes so happy with him, why not just leave me alone and focus on him? If she was with him all this time, it is news to me because I had no clue. I know nothing about this lady but she seems to know everything about me. I dont even know her name. So now shes threatening to expose me on here because I wrecked her home Shes delusional because I lived in his house, I used his car, I was always there with him all the time. He still continues to call me, email me, send me gifts, flowers etc. I dont tell his girlfriend of 3 years because whats the point? Ive had to block his phone number from contacting me, her phone number and restricted calls as well because I literally get a hundred calls from either of them plus restricted calls. I mean, what do they get out of harassing me? If shes so happy with him and hes so committed to her, why not leave me alone? I think she tells me shes been with him for three years to try and upset me so Ill get mad or something. But Im not upset. Its just sad to see some insecure lady focus all her attention on a girl who is half her age that wants nothing to do with him. How do I make them just leave me alone?
Posted on: Thu, 31 Jul 2014 17:24:34 +0000
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