***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! Me & my kids dad have been together since high school. 8 years, and 3 kids later our relationship began to fall apart. He worked long hrs and I stayed home with a preschooler,toddler,& infant. The stress begun to wear us down and he started to shut down. Becoming a man of few words,and when we did have time to be together he started finding other things to do with his time.It got to the point where I felt so alone like we were living seperate lives. Fed up with waiting for him and the fact that we had just bought another house in the country, I decided it was the perfect time for us to take a break. I wanted him to take time to figure out what he wanted, and to work on giving us more time and respecting me. There was a incident where his mom pocket dialed me and left a vm on my phone talking badly about me and he was there.The whole time she was talking he just sat there and I knew he was there cause after she got done saying how she felt about me then he said mama Im gonna head out love you. Although he did not talk bad about me, it hurt my feeling that he didnt defend me. And I had no idea she felt that way. His mother & I had problems in the beginning of our relationship but the last couple of yrs I thought we had a good relationship. Well, one month into this break i find out Im pregnant again. I let him know and asked him not to tell our family the news due to I was confused as to what I wanted to do. I decided to keep it. I cant live with the fact of having 3 living kids and then abort one cause it was the WORST TIMING! We are still on this break and I feel so lost, so confused, he gets the kids on the weekends and sometimes we stay the night together or having movie nights.Today I asked him what are we going to do as far as being together or going our separate ways. His response was he needs more time and not to rush him. So I sent him a text saying other than the kids Im done. I really didnt mean it but Im hurt that he hasnt came home to be with us. That he doesnt show that he misses waking up & going to sleep with me. Im so upset that he seems fine when I feel my life has fell apart right in front of my eyes. I just wonder what I should do, we have so much history, a family already and another addition to it coming Feb. What should my next move be if any. What would you do in this situation? I cant picture me being with anyone else. And I miss him so much! Help plz!
Posted on: Thu, 07 Aug 2014 18:22:53 +0000
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