***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! Sorry this is long, but I have to make sure you guys get the full story. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. He had this female friend and I was fine with their friendship at first. well, I made a huge mistake and cheated. I told him and he said he forgave me and we would move past it. One night he informs me he ants to go have a few drinks with her, so I said ok, just be safe and I will see you when you get home. He said he would be home by 11 and then left. well, I found out that they were drinking ALONE at her house and 11 rolled around and he wasnt home. By 11:30 I started to worry, so I called him and no answer. This went on until around 2:30 in the morning, when he called me back as if everything was cool. He told me they lost track of the time, so I got pissed and then he informs me he was too drunk to drive, so he was sleeping there. 12 hours after he left he came home. Well, I was done after that! I told him he had to choose between us and her. If he chose us, then she had to go. He chose us. That was about a year ago. Well, we moved back to the area in March and it was supposed to be our fresh start, no more dragging the past in with us..blah, blah, blah. Well, on the 13th of this month he just ends things. I had a feeling he was talking to her again, so I put a keylogger on the computer and I found out he was. He has been hiding it from me for months and months. He even tried to hide it when I called him out on it, he acted like he wasnt going to tell me. He has NO clue about the keylogger and he has NO clue I have been watching what he says to her. Last night I made one more effort to keep our family together, but I told him that she cannot be in the picture. He swore to me that our family was more important than their friendship. Well, I get on the computer later and found out that he told her he has NO plans to end their friendship. He doesnt know I know. I made it clear that the ONLY way I am comfortable with them continuing their friendship is if I meet her, so I know she doesnt have a hidden agenda. He keeps saying he needs to think about it. I just wonder if anyone else thinks this sounds like emotional cheating or if he is wrong? Or am I blowing things way out of proportion? Please dont bash, because I have been devastated since this all happened and I just need some honest answers or sympathy or something that isnt hurtful. Thanks!
Posted on: Mon, 23 Jun 2014 16:15:00 +0000
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