Relationships and Pretentiousness- The speed at which more and more people are entering in and coming out of Relationships is increasing day by day.One of the most common reason men/women are giving for the same is that their partner has started Behaving Differently or they are not as loving and caring as they were before or they are not as kind and understanding as they were before. The basic reason lies in one the most common disease human beings are suffering from now a days i.e. Being Pretentious. All of us have some Qualities which can be termed as our Basic Qualities. But usually we Ignore them and focus more on the Trends i.e. what is that ..that more and more people want from their partners ??? once they are clear about the trend they start and try to Pretend that they too have those qualities. Now people who are looking for those qualities will feel attracted towards them and may get into a relationship with them. But for how long can one pretend??? Soon they start showing their real self which shock their partners and eventually they call it quits. What we need to Understand is that when we were given some qualities then People who are looking for those qualities were also made. These people are looking exactly for what you have to offer. But if you have quality A but you are pretending to have quality B then why would someone looking for quality A will approach you???? whose loss is it???? Now if someone who is looking for quality B (which you are pretending to have) might approach you but this relationship will of course wont last long because you do not have what they are looking for and you can not Pretend for long. What we need to understand that Pretending to have a different personality then your real self will never do you any good. Instead of that if we can have some patience and confidence on our real qualities we will soon start attracting all those people who are looking exactly for the same. Relations based on pretentious never last long and can never be full of peace and happiness while relations based on truth and reality with the projection of your real self will always last long and will be much more happier.
Posted on: Wed, 03 Dec 2014 06:55:56 +0000
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