SIGH! Hello Zane, Please let me remain anonymous. First I love all of your books, some have made me think twice about being such a good girl..My Question is Ive known & dated this Man for almost 6years, we have a 2 year old child together. Hes still legally married but tells me that they have No involvement with each other, and yes Ive asked why havent he gotta a divorce he away say its complicated. He does have children with her 7 but they are all grown just 2under 18 of age..He said hes not ready to introduce anyone to his children because he doesnt feel that is right..Hes 54 and Im 34 Ive never been to his house out of the 6 years Ive know him he always comes to my place. He has been here when I had nothing no one to turn to, and he never lets me forget it..Hes the only man Ive been with in the last 10years, he has hes own company, has a few houses that he owns and rent out.I work in the Health field he makes way more than myself and he always tells me how woman always hit on him women that have their own business and making over 60,000 a year.He always make me feel like I will never find anyone that will do the things he have done for me such as paying my mortgage and other things when I was pregnant with our child. .Well I have spoken to him for about about a month I feel that Im his part time woman. When he comes over I cook and do all the things that a wife would do...He told me theres more woman that out # men and women should not be so worried about a man being with more than one woman as long as the man can provide for both.Well that did it I love this man but I can share a man, and Im slowly trying to love me but it hurts soo damn bad.What advice would you give me as woman...... MY RESPONSE: Let me wipe off my glasses because I just came in from the rain and read this again.... Darling, the reason his divorce is complicated is because there is not going to be a divorce. You are six years into this with a two-year-old child and he has made it clear that you need to consider yourself lucky to even be in his presence. He is running mad game. You already know that he is never going to be yours and I am sure you suspect that he is still with his wife. She may be staying in her lane as well. My advice as a woman is to think more of yourself than you do and realize that him paying some bills is not worth it. Put his ass on child support, learn to be self-sufficient and keep it moving. You are performing wifely duties but there already is a wife. I do not care if a man can provide for 20 women. So damn what? You say that you are slowly trying to love you. You need to get rid of the toxins in your life and get some counseling so you can recognize a real man when he presents himself. Good luck.
Posted on: Tue, 03 Jun 2014 19:16:02 +0000
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