SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN: ( 1) Rejecting food when theres an issue: Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you dont allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on. ( 2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head: May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however dont become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head. (3) Issuing threats: beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting herchildish womanpart, play thematured man. (4) Reporting your wife to friends and family: When your wife offends you, correct and talk things through. You dont have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. (5) Keeping malice: is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticize, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like abig boywhos in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations. (6) Not helping with house chores: I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home. However, its not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care youll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men dont even saythank Youto their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. Its a shame that after having 3-4kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal. Lastly, every man should have a church/mosque where his family is watered and raised spiritually. This makes you accountable, its immaturity and dangerous to be a sheep without a shepherd. As you learn and grow in the right fold, youll be able to take the lead as the head of the home GOOD MORNING!!!
Posted on: Sat, 29 Nov 2014 05:18:48 +0000
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