SOMETIMES HOLDING ON IS BETTER THAN LETTING GO OF A “LONG TIME RELATIONSHIP” Many folks say that LETTING GO is the best solution to most of the relationship problems. Yeah they’re right to a greater extent but have you ever asked yourself where are you gonna turn to and what are you gonna do after letting go of the relationship you have kept for so long? Are you gonna give up on love forever and start living a single life or you are gonna search for someone new and you fall in love with them? If you are gonna be a loner that’s fine but it isn’t easy to maintain and if you are gonna go on a hunt for someone new, then still you are gonna go through the same process and the same irritating things. Believe it or not the new person you’re gonna get is not gonna be a heaven sent angel that they’ll be flawless in everything they’ll do or say to you. Trust me at one time they’ll also do many hurting things to you, they won’t return your love in time, they’ll make you feel like you are worthless and they’ll anger you in different ways but will you just simply let them go because it’s the solution and then you jump into another relationship? Hmmm! For how long are you gonna be doing the picking & dumping thing? When will you settle down and enjoy the fruits of love? Where will you find the perfect person who will never hurt you? How will you identify that person? My friends, sometimes holding on is better than letting go of a “long time relationship”, if the person you’re relating with is not willing to adjust in some things and you see your future in him or her, then adjust a little bit just for the good of your relationship. If your partner is not doing some things that you love, do them and s/he will learn from you. If your partner does something wrong and accepts his or her mistakes, forgive him or her and push on with the relationship. Fight for your relationship if it’s worth it. Never let your longtime relationship break over SOME THINGS that are bearable or that can be worked out. PS: Get me right on this article. I’m not saying that it’s a MUST that one has to hold onto such kind of a relationship that’s why I have used the word “sometimes”. Holding on depends on one’s decision, what they want, the period of time they have spent together and what their partners have done to them. If the problem is bearable and your partner is willing to change, then hold on, work out things and push on with the relationship. But if it’s unbearable and your partner is not willing to change then letting go is the solution.
Posted on: Thu, 23 Jan 2014 22:18:08 +0000
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