So, I am one of those people who always thought it crazy that people would post their personal business on this kind of a forum, but i dont know a better way for me to get out what i need to say. It was a year ago today that I left to go up to the cottage to clean, leaving Mitch home, allowing him to go to his dads even though it was my weekend. I knew he wouldnt want to help me clean and I felt it wasnt his responsibility, so i suggested he go to his fathers until I came back home. who couldve ever foreseen what the next year would hold. Surrounded by cop cars, accusations of abuse, defending myself against anyone and everyone. As i always tell my children sometimes something that you see as the worst possible thing can turn out to be a blessing,(Maybe not for Mitch). My ex took me to court, fighting for sole custody of Mitch and requesting that I not get any visitation with him at all. Which is always frowned upon by the court particularly in our case as i had 254 days to Jims 111 and Mitch was being home schooled, by me at his request, and excelling. that weekend I turned to my other children and asked them to try to help before things got out of hand, that request was not met with much joy and eventually led to somewhat of an estrangement from the rest of the kids. Even to the extent that Courtnie believed, for the first time ever, that I was not proud of or was disappointed in her. I want to go on record now and state that at no time have I ever been disappointed or not proud of my children, just some of their decisions. As with all parents, you hope that someday your children will get it when they have kids of their own. I also want it known how very proud I am of my friends who fought for me as well as Mitch. I am also proud of myself for no longer being a victim or allowing anyone to bully me anymore. I went to court without an attorney, against Jims West Bloomfield attorney and I showed my ex husband to be the liar, cheat and manipulator that he is. I also showed his new wife to be a liar, I guess they are better suited for each other than I thought, I always felt sorry for her, because she had been lied to and manipulated. Im over that. I also put child protective services on the stand and ripped them apart, catching them in numerous lies. I then supposedly won, if you can call it that. I still have custody of Mitch and 254 days to Jims 111 but have not seen or spoken with him in a year. I will tell you what I told the court. i fought for my son because I have to live with myself for the rest of my life and in order to do that i needed to know that I had done everything within my power to fight for him. I have done that and my conscience is clear. I know for a fact that Mitch cant say the same thing and i do not want to hear how he was only 15, thats no excuse. Mitch even left his dog, Buddy, to die. Buddy doesnt understand why he hasnt/doesnt see his best friend. I am putting all this out there today because I need to get it out. I dont deserve to continue to live with all of this inside of me. those of you who were there already know the truth, to everyone else, hopefully you will now all understand why i am the way I am and why I despise anything to do with any part of the government. I feel much better now that Ive gotten this out and for those of you who are wondering how Mitch is doing, he flunked out of school after he left my house last year and he flunked out of summer school and hes flunking out of school this year. Bravo ....for him. These were all his decisions, with a little help/bribery/manipulation from his father. He has to find his own way to deal with what hes done.
Posted on: Sat, 29 Mar 2014 16:24:24 +0000
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