So I have posted before on relationships, in how you are either growing together or apart. But there is also dying, whoa, dying thats harsh. Yep but this is what happens more often in a relationship. Why? Because at times we are too blind to see that we grew apart. We become depressed, angry, scared..... How can it be over, I am going to fight for the relationship. Fighting is exactly what ends up happening. Listen I am not saying you can not have a mature relationship where two people are truly growing together. But that takes two. I am talking about when it is truly not working and you have grown apart. But most of us can not accept the growing apart. We then become an anchor. To ourselves, our partner, children, friends and family. It all is dying. If its not working, move on. You have the choice, it is a choice. You are given another opportunity to start again, reinvent yourself, relationship, everything. Dont die! Dont be an anchor and bring everyone down with you. Especially if you have kids. They did not ask to be brought into this world they deserve the best in both parents weather it together or apart! Do you want to teach them how to stay stuck and miserable or what it takes to really grow. Period. (Stepping off my soap box). Lol. Make it a great day!! --joe
Posted on: Mon, 24 Mar 2014 16:07:32 +0000
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