So hard but thank you for this :) Relationships break up are tough. No one gets through it over night. For some, it takes months. Others, it takes years. It all depends on how long the two of you were together. One thing is certain: there is no easy way to get over a break up. And moving on is your only option. How to carry on Heartache is a phase we all go through. Our heart breaks when a relative die. Our heart breaks when our pet runs away. It is a typical emotion all humans go through and feel. Break up in a relationship is no different than losing a family through death. You also deal with a permanent loss with break ups. It can be very lonely and depressing. Losing somebody always gives the worst feeling in the world. Some people could not handle the pain and the loneliness that they resort to committing suicide. Do not ever do that. Your life is too precious to end it because of one person who may not really be the “one”. Moving on from a break up requires a lot of effort, time and thinking. There is no easy way to make the pain go away. So instead, embrace it. Let the pain of losing your lover sink in. If you feel like crying or talking to somebody, do it. Crying and talking about the break up lessens the burden. Take your time alone reflecting on the relationship. Analyze the reasons why the two of you have called it quits. Do not play the blame game. It is not important whose fault is it. A relationship is a two way street. The two of you are the captains of the ship that lead to a dead end. If your partner cheated on you, he/she must want something he/she cannot find in you. But that is not your fault. Your partner should be contented with what you can give. He/She knows what you can and cannot do when you have met. After a break up The best way to move on is to start opening yourself to the world. Lock yourself in your house for a day or two. But afterwards, wipe your tears, get out of the bed, and start filling up your calendar. If you have a job, get busy with it. Finally, there’s nothing that can distract your focus on your career. You could take opportunities from other cities or other countries. There’s nothing more fulfilling than being successful in your profession. Get a new hobby. Now that you have free time, you can do stuffs you never had a chance to do. Enroll in art classes, cooking training or music lessons. Travel is the best. Explore the world and surround yourself with a different environment. Have a vacation with your friends. Attend parties and meet new people. Being active socially can take your mind off your ex. Getting over a break up was never easy. But the feeling lightens up when you surround yourself with friends and family. And besides, this is the perfect time for you to bond with your loved ones. Catch up with what you’ve missed and make up for lost time.
Posted on: Thu, 11 Dec 2014 02:57:04 +0000
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