Stand up for yourself. Dont allow someone, just because they have had a few drinks, or because they are going through hard times, to take out their frustrations and anger on you. Require others to honor your space and respect your dignity as a person of worth. Let the people in your life own their choices and dont give them permission to dump their problems or crises on you. This includes your grown children, parents, relatives, people you work with or go to church with, and/or friends. Refuse to buy into the guilt trips or pay for their consequences. Stop taking on their responsibilities. If you werent alive...they would have to figure it out and they would. Sometimes helping is actually hurting them, keeping them from helping themselves. Take the time to focus on your own needs for a change and let others do the same! You deserve!
Posted on: Wed, 23 Oct 2013 05:42:08 +0000
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