THE NEGATIVE SELF TALK MUST STOP. By Fredrick kaonafatso Mamabolo I understand that, like all of us you have had some mistakes in your past ( and maybe even in your present) , but this negative self talk of yours must stop. I do not understand how you are helping the situation by going on and on about how useless, inefficient , ugly and all those other etc you are . If you are to stay healthy and live longer you may have to stop this rubbish. The thing is ,everyday wena you talk yourself down and expect us to love , respect and appreciate you. How are we suppose to do that? People will always treat you the way you treat yourself. Treat yourself right and we will treat you right and you too will feel right. You come into a new relationship and / or a job already declaring that it is not gonna last ,and then you act all surprised when it doesnt. You go around telling people that you are poor and stupid , but you want to kill them when they say the same back to you. Your success this week will depends on how you see yourself, speak about yourself and treat yourself. No body is going to treat you like a million dollar bill if you behave and see your self as a one dollar bill. I always here from our sister ; he does not treat me right ,he does not love me , people are talking bad about me etc but have you ever stopped and checked if you are treating or talking about yourself any better? It is high time you set a standard of how people should treat you ,by the way you treat yourself. Set a standard of how people talk about you by doing good things and talking good about you. Please do not confuse good positive talk with pompous arrogant pride. I am tired of people who speak bad about themselves and say it is a sign of being humbled . What is humbled about calling yourself stupid ? If your life is to change for the better , your words has to change ,your tone has to change especially about yourself. If you cannot love yourself ,it is impossible for you to love others,and if you do not love others ,they will not love you too. Trust me ,not being loved is the worst pain you would ever like to imagine upon yourself. Do not only look at the things that went wrong in your life, look also at the things that did not go wrong and Thank God ;thank God for the job you did not loose , thank God for the car that was not hijacked ,thank you for the child that got sick and did not die,the divorce that did not happen the cancer that you were not diagnosed with....oh gosh there is always something to be grateful of about you ... I am done motivating people who keep demotivating themselves ,when you demotivated yourselves you disadvantage all those around you. Inspire yourself and become an inspiration to all. You are beautiful , you are gifted and special before the eyes of The lord and people.But all this things I have just said are useless if you are not going to repeat them to your self. ( taken from my new book Turn things I would like to say to a black child) #powerman
Posted on: Mon, 07 Jul 2014 06:49:24 +0000