The road not taken was not taken for a reason. TRUST that you are right where you need to be...Author Unknown Unconditional Love. Does it exist? People seem to think that this is only possible in an intimate relationship, a marriage, or a couple living together. They seem to think that if a couple part and go separate ways than unconditional love no longer exist between the two. Many couples now-a-days cant seem to make it until death do us part. Its very true that most couple who break up, divorce or go thru a trial separation they usually hate one another, they usually do not speak to one another, and will do nothing to help each other. A relationship is hard and requires lots and lots of work to make it work and to survive longevity. Its very sad when a public , very public relationship goes thru a break-up. Everyone has an opinion, everyone has advice and everyone believes they know and understand what the couple has gone thru, is going thru and will be going thru. People also will take sides. Point fingers and oh yes indeed they will blame one or the other of the two involved. When Christopher first told me what was going on I was sadden and I felt heartache. More for Juliana than for my son. I have become very very fond of Juliana, I have gotten to know her as I have NEVER known her before. And so I felt pain in my heart for her. As I listened to my son I heard sadness in his voice , I heard doubt and I heard pain. He had been with this young lady since she was 16 years old after all. It was not going to be easy for him either. He sat there and spoke of how they have both changed, how they have both become more like friends than lovers, he spoke of how they both decided to become just that, friends. He sat there and told me that even though they were no longer a couple they still Skype daily, send each other Facebook messages and still tell each other they love one another. He spoke of how he was still going to visit her often, help with her recovery in anyway he could and be her biggest motivator. I asked him how Juliana had taken the news. His voice changed to a soft and loving tone and he said MOM she and I have discussed this and we both feel its for the best. I am not going to just turn my back on her and just forget her. I can never ever forget her. She is not someone that you can forget that easily. We are not angry with each other, we do not hate each other, I will always be there for her, when ever she needs me I will be there in a heartbeat. Mom, we are two people who still have love and respect for each other, the only thing different is we are now friends, best friends. I listened to him speak and the tone of his voice when he spoke of her was always softer and was full of love. And thats when it hit me. Unconditional love does exist and it does exist, but not only for couples, it does exist for Best Friends too. Unconditional love is not just for couples. And any couple that can remain friends and still love each other, still talk daily to each other , still respect each other, still know they can depend on each other and still really like each other after a break up , are truly special people to begin with... Unconditional love is just that, it doesnt stop, just because being a couple stopped , it remains and continues on for those who are truly blessed with remaining BEST FRIENDS after it all has ended....
Posted on: Sun, 29 Jun 2014 03:54:22 +0000
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