There are people that ignore problems in their relationship and tend to see issues through their own skewed sense of reality. If forced to deal with the problems, they completely withdraw from the relationship and their partner. They will deny evidence of wrong doing, distort what is obviously know to be real to fit their own agenda, minimize or lie so that their version of what is real seems more logical. They will say one thing, do another, and then deny ever saying the first thing. Their needs and wishes are never communicated in a clear manner, and expect their partner to read their mind and meet their needs. After all, if their partner truly loved them they would just naturally know what they needed or wanted. They are adept at seeking out a relationship with someone who can be the object of their hostility and only settle for someone whose expectations and demands they can resist. These people will dodge responsibility for anything in the relationship while at the same time making it look as if they are pulling their own weight and are a very loving partner. The sad thing is that you can be made to believe that you are loved and adored by a person who is completely unable to form an emotional connection with anyone outside their biological family.
Posted on: Wed, 09 Oct 2013 07:10:26 +0000
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