Theres been something bugging me lately... Pretty bad. I had a conversation with an old friend recently- we catch up from time to time... Well this time it led in the direction of how many kids I have, my pets, etc... He called me crazy and I laughed it off because we always pick on each other. It then led to him not knowing how I did it by myself when Glenn was gone and said I should have married a man with a 9-5 who makes good money and has benefits.... I joked around because I was already getting defensive and said I got laid less and his comment was actually I meant like actually having him around to be a father and husband.... to which the conversation quickly died out and I probably wont ever talk to him again because thats just very offensive to me.... Glenn doesnt deploy because he doesnt want to be a dad- he does because its his job. And he is an incredible father physically present or not. And as far as a husband? It makes us stronger knowing that he wont physically be with me. I didnt marry for love, I didnt marry to have help. I married Glenn because he has all the qualities of a MAN and he loves ME unconditionally and he is someone with whom I can simultaneously enjoy life together and strengthen our future. Its funny those who didnt comment on my life when I was miserable have the gaul to put their two cents in on my life now. If you have an opinion on my life as a military wife, mom of *gasp* more than two kids, pet owner of more than one cat or dog.... You can shove it. Because all its going to do is make me not talk to you anymore. I dont care what you think about the way I live because I have never been happier- even when I cry when he deploys. Because I could be where I was years ago.
Posted on: Mon, 26 May 2014 03:14:22 +0000
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