This is for the friends on my Facebook that care (It is long but important): I detest the concept of drama on Facebook. I much prefer the ability to communicate friendly with those I care about, however, for reasons you will understand by the end of this post I am forced to share some information publicly. If as you read this you chose to drop me from your Facebook feed I understand and hold no ill will, but know that I will not be doing this normally. This (hopefully) is a one and final drama filled moment. Earlier this year I betrayed my family. I took for granted the love and faith they had in me and had an affair. This knowledge alone may give some of you the desire to delete me right now or say that I need to just let it go. For those that are still reading, I tried to just let it go, but someone is not letting me. I ended the affair and gave full and complete honesty to my wife in an attempt to begin to reconcile. I have chosen to be with her and want to be the man she once fell in love with again. However, the other woman had other plans. After telling her through multiple methods that it was over, she made several attempts to contact me. Those contacts very rapidly turned to stalking and over the past few months she has -- Hunted me, my wife and the kids through social media; used third parties to contact me and try to drag information from me, or relay hers. She verbally attacked my wife and with some of the most disgusting and vile things anyone could have ever dreamed up. She has followed us around town, driven near our home and made false accusations at work (yes she is a co-worker). She has made threats against my job and against us of a more personal nature. And today involved her husband (yes she was married too), in following my wife as she attempted to head home. Not a single day goes by that we are able to consider the things we do without having to consider the safety of our home and anyone who is in it. Over the past two months we have sent a formalized No Contact letter to her and her husband, we filed harassment complaints at work and even attempted a protective order filing through the courts. There are other details that could make this message even longer, but those are the cliff notes. And that brings us to why I am posting this. In court the judge decided that I brought this on myself, and a protective order would not be put in place to stop nuisance behavior, and that we just needed to “grow up.” After today’s acts, I have decided to no longer remain silent (now that she is involving her husband in the stalking aspect I fear she will just grow braver). My next post will contain all the information; if the legal system is unable to make this stop, and I can do nothing without breaking the law, then I will make damn sure it is known far and wide the type of people that are threatening my family and making everyday life a constant battle between anger and apprehension. They will no longer be able to breathe without knowing that someone is looking at them the way they have been doing to us. I will not see my family forced to live their lives in any other manner than that which makes them happy. I am sorry for the actions I made that led to this, but this has gone far beyond some despicable act I did. This has gone to a level of crazy I will not stand for. My family and I have a lot of healing to go through, and that healing cannot begin when there is someone trying to destroy their life on a daily basis.
Posted on: Wed, 13 Aug 2014 04:30:38 +0000
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