This is my dillema. I am a single mom. My adorable son is 3yo. His dad and I are in good terms. We dont have any relationship aside from being our sons biological parents. Infairness, supportive kau cya financially samo son. They get to go out once a week. Dako na kaau cyag kausaban from what he was before. The reason why gabuwag mi was he was very irresponsible before. our relationship is not healthy anymore. There were times nga masakpan nko cya nga naay katex2 ug ka-tawag2 lain sa phone during midnyt. Hilig kau ug chix and always nia irason nko was friendly lang cya. Usahay mulakaw walay pananghid. Pila ka adlaw dli muuli. One time i remember him telling me nga nabag ohan cya sa iyang position as sup. I understood pud coz super focus man kau cya all his college life. Sa akong part is not acceptable coz naa nami baby, he cant just go out and hang out and get gone for how many days without me knowing while kami sa among anak natagbaw ug pangeta nia. Dli gani cya katx ug buhi pba. Ing-ani akong life before. Always worried. Always stressed. Until my heart and mind got exhausted and got tired of loving and caring without reciprocation ba. So ako cya gbuwagan. At first shock cya, dli cya kadawat, usahay makamata ko naa nay gahilak sakong tiil. He was sorry but it was too late na. Makigbalik cya but dli najud ko. Slowly nawala najud akong feelings nia to point nga i dont really care at all na. No We are better off as friends. The only painful part was we have a son. A son who might question me, us in the future. A product of our failure. Although i could say nga overloved akong anak sa akong family, sa akong dadi and mom and sa iyang father, lahi rajud ang complete family nga dak an nia. So there, mao ni ang gipush maau sa akong dad karon. Pailisan ang last name sa akong baby sa among family name and not his Dads. My baby is currently using his Dads last name - Aragon. Ganahan ipachange sako dad samo family name nga Singson and stop all communication and support gikan sa akong ex. Totally get rid of him out of our lives. His reason is- wala cyay kwenta pagkalalaki kunu. He didnt have the balls nga barogan mi. He was not a good partner to me and a good father samong anak. Partly, kasabot kos akong papa kay grabe kau ko kapinangga but dli ko gnhan magdako akong anak nga wala kaila sa iyang papa. So gatalk mi sakong ex, he said nga magbalik nlang daw mi para dli malayo ang bata nia. He promised nga magbinuotan na cya. Infairness pd, hagbay na kaau cya nabuotan. Mga almost 2 yrs na cya nachange. I could say mature na kaau cya. Makaingon ko nga if in ani plang cya sa una, happy family pa unta mi ron. Ok rman unta nko . anyway, its for our son- which is my life. BUT the problem is, wala najd koi feelings nia. Bisag unsa pana cya kagwapo ug kahumot, wala najuy spark. I cant jmagine myself kissing him or sleeping with him. As in!!! We tried working it out but dli najd coz ofcourse wala nakoy amor. Everytime mag away mi gahi nkay kog o, dli ko magpaubos, etc becoz ofcourse wala na gani koy amor ba. btw, status namo. Single and never had any bf after mi gabuwag. My ex had a gf for 2 mos and now single for almost 2 yrs napd. Serious comments lang pls. Thanks
Posted on: Wed, 22 Oct 2014 14:05:46 +0000
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