WAYS TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE WHO MAY DISLIKE YOU (Unabridged) By Mubita C. Nawa There are people who love you and those who dont. Often we work so hard to be liked when we can just do what God wants us to do and the right people will come our way. Never compromise on who you are to accommodate those who may never even like you no matter what you ever do. Here is a simple recipe on how to deal with those who may dislike you. 1- FORGIVE THEM FOR THEY PROBABLY DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING. Forgiveness is a liberator. Let them be. Do not hold on to anger as there are no permanent enemies in life. People who may dislike you forget that they too have human weaknesses that we too may not like about them but we tolerate them. So forgive them and let it go. It is for you freedom and liberation. 2- DEFEAT THEM WITH MORE SUCCESS. ITS REALLY NOT YOU THEY DISLIKE. ITS YOUR RESULTS. Success is a painful thing to failures. So pile up success and let failures be. Failures (and there are no permanent failures) are those who refuse to rise from their setbacks. We all experience setbacks in our lifetime. 3- NEVER RESPOND TO THEM DIRECTLY. SILENCE IS SO PAINFUL TO SHALLOW PEOPLE. The Kenyans say even silence is a defense. It is painful to see people gossip behind your back. But let it go. God will fight your battles. Listen to some of the things people have to say because no man is an island. But never dwell on that. Dont give attention to cheap shots whose goal is to make you fall from your podium of grace. 4. USE THEM. USE THEM TO ADVERTISE YOU. There is no such thing as bad publicity my friend. As long as you are being talked about your name is moving forward. What we must do is repent from our mistakes and change our lives. But thereafter you have no control. Their talking about you is helping you grow, mature and humble yourself. Most of all learn from them. CONCLUSION Life is not perfect. Adam and Eve brought us challenges and trouble. But it is this trouble and these challenges that make us who we are; human. Anyone who pretends otherwise is not real. May God bless you and enjoy the gift of life, the zest and zeal of getting up and the vivacity of believing God for a better tomorrow. I will see you on top where champions dwell. TO RECEIVE WEEKLY EMAILS DIRECTLY TO YOUR MAIL FROM MUBITA C. NAWA CLICK HERE ON THE LINK BELOW: forms.aweber/form/50/1559386850.htm To sign up for the upcoming live motivational event with Mubita C. Nawa on January 17th call 0978117920 Share this if you like it. You may bless someone.
Posted on: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 09:49:40 +0000
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