*** WHY SHOULD I HOLD ON? *** What is love? Have u ever loved, and felt unloved? Have u ever Trusted, and got Heart broken? Have u ever given ur best, and it seems youve ben wasting ur time? Have u ever believd in sumtin with all ur heart, and later got disappointed? How do u feel? Soar; Sad; Bored; Angry; Fainty; Depressed; or like ending d world? Or better still, u fe€l Happy? Hmmmmmm.... Dnt worry, it called Laws of Nature. What abt ur Marriage/Relationship? Hws going? Ever felt like giving up? Hmmmm... Ok, listen. Life is like a battle field, and so sumtyms we face sum sort of war in our affairs. and like every battle, if u fyt harder, ull always emerge a Winner. So, Wen ever u in a Relationship, and its not working out, and u really want out... Well, jst sit back relaxed. Tink abt d 1st day u met, hw it started, d reason why uve gone dis far, wat had kept u with him/her, and tink abt d gud-sweet moments.. Forget abt d odd moments. Even if u do tink abt dem, ask urself wat went wrong. I tell u wat; deres no way u gonn make it running away frm chalenges, or jumpin in & out of relationships. Even in a maths test, u dnt get a pass mark simply bcos u culdnt solve d sum, or dnt knw d solution, so u skipd it. Hahahah... Dats an F. Trust me wen I say dat... Same applies 2 relationships. U dnt leap around. Hw do u tink d nxt one will work, wen u culdnt tackle d problem u had with d previous? Wat if a problem like dat surfaces? Are u gonn run into anoda? Come on...... Dat aint d way 4ward. he who fyts & run away, surely lives 2 fyt anoda day.. So finish d fyt nw, and live in/at peace later. Remember: Relationship/Marriage is a union of 2 imperfect being coming 2geda 2 be one. So, dat mins u aint perfect. Theres no such tin as Mr. Right or Miss Right. U groom ur man/woman 2 ur taste. Wen God created #Adam , He gave him instructions, and hw 2 take care of d Garden. #Eve wasnt there. Wen God also gave Eve to Adam, he gave him (Adam) a Help Mate (Raw Material). It was Adam who later groomed Eve to be a Woman, and also instructed her based on d instructions God gave him. It was Adam dat told her, God said dis, and God said dat.. It was Adam dat infused her to his mission. God only gave him a help mate, he had to introduce her to her role in his Mission. And she had 2 use wat she had 2 assist him. Tins later went wrong, yea. But who is 2 blame? Everybodys blaming Eve, cos she ate d apple & blah blah blah.. Bt, as I said earlier, Eve wasnt dere wen God instructed Adam. It was Adam dat trained Eve 2 b his Miss Right. So, Eve was acting at the level of/based on d instructions Adam gave to her. She floppd bcos d Training wasnt solid enough. Adam told her, God said we shuldnt eat of dis fruit lest we die, bt didnt give her enough reasons 2 hold on to. And wen d devil said, God said so, bcos he never wanted u 2 b like Him, she was sold out 2 it. Why? Bcos Adam didnt build her well 2 d understanding dat God is a faithful father, and friend who wish His children well, and can never lie. So, nw I clear d air, and I say it again, dere aint nobody calld Mr & Miss Right. A man & a woman comes 2geda (marrys) bcos one gat sumtin d oda needs (reproductive organs) wen it comes 2 givin birth. Likewise, a wife myt hv d As qualities, and d husband d Bs qualities. Both combined deir qualities 2 make up a team dat needs both A & B 2 sail 2ru. So, wen faced with challenges, dnt give up. Tink abt d beginnings. Never tink abt d hard times, cos wen u do, u get more reasons why u shuld quit. But wen u tink abt d Happy & luvly moments, u smile & it gives u more reason 2 stay/hold on with d hope dat tins will b better. I pray God gives us strength & Grace 2 Triumph wen we all get dere, in Jesus name. Luv u all.... [CULLED FROM THE BOOK: SO LONG A WALK - Marriage & Destiny, by Royalson Festus Clinton] NB: All Copyright Reserved. No part of dis post should be rebroadcast or printed in any form without d permission of d Author. Follow on twitter @I_AmMr_Roy Email: royclintson4all@yahoo or royalson.clinton@yahoo Call: +233542722530
Posted on: Sun, 16 Mar 2014 19:05:13 +0000
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