WORDS WRITTEN BY AN OBSERVANT WOMAN. Good men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most of us cant see them because we dont even know what a good man really looks like. He usually isnt flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or ride a BMW. He might not have a body like Vin Diesel with a Brad Pitt face. But, as you mature, you realize it is better to find someone whos got your back than someone who turns your head. A good man doesnt agree whole heartedly with everything you say. He doesnt just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He has his own opinions and you may clash, but he doesnt have to degrade you to prove hes right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same. A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you dont live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare,Aha! I knew you were a dog!! A good man doesnt necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentines gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Dont judge him by TV standards (...Bold and the Beautiful...). No one lives that fairy tale for real. Youll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good... It takes a real woman that know what she wants to understand this. Good night
Posted on: Thu, 11 Dec 2014 20:10:01 +0000