Was cleaning out my inbox, and found these inspiring words from 2008. Funny how things come full circle... Long, but insightful. How do u move on from being in love and wanting to be with someone? How is it possible to put all that aside to have a successful relationship with someone else? When you realize that everything has a purpose and a reason then you tend to broaden your perception about life. All of a sudden, you’ll see that both good and bad things hold a vital place in our being. One is so contingent on the other, that without both good and bad elements in our life, we can not define either of the two. I disclose that to acknowledge this: By being in love with someone, you experience love in its entirety; the good parts, the bad parts, the ups and downs, the romance, the frustrations, the fulfillment, and yes… … even the loss and aftermath of it. You move on by understanding that the moment of lov“ing” has past but not the idea of love itself, that my dear has actually grown stronger with you through experience. Because you may now be able to relate with both the good and the bad elements of love, you are now more equipped to appreciate it more when you share it with someone else. It’s almost like starving for food for 30 days and then going to a buffet. If you are regretting the fact that you were once in love, then I would question if you really were in love at all? If you’re just missing the feeling of it, then I would question what purpose does being in love have in your life? If you’re hesitant about being in love again, then I would question your insecurities? Being in love is a rare, supernatural, once in a lifetime experience, and true love, rather present or past, have everlasting effects on anyone’s mind, body, and soul, that is only deemable as BEAUTIFUL, thus when we have it we should die to keep it and if lost we should hold on to those concrete impressions that remain with us till death. Simply put: We don’t move on from being in love, we grow from out of it with as stronger more humbled beings ready to jump back into the next!
Posted on: Thu, 01 Aug 2013 01:14:00 +0000
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