We all meet people that help us grow. Whether it is to grow our defenses, our mental, emotional, or spiritual walls, or to help us become who we are meant to be. Looking back into my life, I now realize that I have met and probably will meet many other people that will do that. I was recently told that I am as not as nice as I once was. That person will remain anonymous but it makes me ask myself. What exactly does it mean to be nice? How far does it go until nice turns into naive or vulnerable. The definition of the word nice is to be pleasant or pleasing or agreeable in nature or appearance. I try to be kind, appealing and naturally good to all of those that I meet. However, it is true what they say that pain and life changes you. There are a few times in my life that I have been let down or disappointed because I was naively nice. Furthermore, I have seen what people can really be like and what the term two-face truly means. I see the world now not as what I used to see it as when I was a child. That for me is truly scary. I used to see beauty in everything that happens around me. Now I actually have to try in order to see the good around me because I know that the bad is always close by. I am nice, but I am no longer someone that is just used to be walked on and used. I can read people better than I ever have before and I can tell what someone is thinking before they start talking based on facial expression and eyes alone. I will continue to be kind and considerate of others, because that is who I am. However, if you cross me or are rude to me, my family members, friends and people I care about, I can not promise that I will stay nice to you afterwards. Okay, rant over. Hope everyone has a great day. :)
Posted on: Tue, 02 Sep 2014 15:27:54 +0000
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