What a night, been helping 2 friends! Wife & husband. Husband is my good friend, says he wants to part ways with his wife because of ireconcilable differences? Hes is so mad about a small incident that he says hes leaving his wife? Because of another man friend hes suspecting??? Very long Story. This couple has 3 beautiful children, 14 yrs marriage? This marriage should not go down to the drain? I say there is nothing that is not reconcileable! No situation lasts forever, and if it fails part amicably its that simple! No need for any ceremonies, no need to rise your voices and be at each others necks most especially infront of the kids! My wife is my best friend! We men tend to forget that our wives are a big part of our lives, Men are visual women are oral! Yes yes, i know sometimes a man can get in to a womans ear and tell her many pokies! But she will always find out the HARD way. We all make mistakes that are not reveraseable, but are regreatable! when one has kids its not about you anymore? Its about those little angles that is paramont!! the future of your kids is far much more important than you leaving your wife? Sorry i love Luganda but ignore my spelling mistakes. The Baganda call a wife a mukyala? do you know why? A mukyala! aba akyala bu kyazi!!! ayinza oku kyaluka sawa yona? Omukyala taba wuwo abana beba ababo! meaning a wife is just a vistor in your relationship and she can leave at any time she feels like it? its the kids that are yours.(I say kids are for both parents) Someone had lunch with an old friend and comes back home LET it go!!! You can NEVER ever be the same its common for brother and sister to disagree same mother same father! so why do you expect not to disagree with a woman you meet at a weeding, a party, a club, school, and even church? and now shes your wife you start to belive shes your personal property? Boss ms dos comands dont work in the windows os! we are different and can never ever be the same. To me I drive my relationship I know when to change lanes, when to brake, when to steer left, dodge potholes, and most importantly know when to engage in to reverse! If you navigation or gps doesnt work in a foreign land you are in big problems if God says in 300 turn left please obey! Because the next voice prompt will hear 100% will be when possible please make a u turn, if you still disobey! THEN ITS A DEAD END. Belive me even the best drivers in the world have accidents, thats why we have insurance to fix the damages! I say put your insurance in God and my assurance is that he never fails. And never stop talking conflict resolution is an art archive it archive wealth. Besides if a woman goes out and does wrong! she has already left YOU. I say again put your trust in the Lord! for we ALL have sinned and fallen short of the glory of GOD. OFF TO CHURCH. GOOD SUNDAY.
Posted on: Sun, 10 Aug 2014 04:21:59 +0000