hello Zane. I am a married woman of almost 20 years. I have been faithful to my husband during the whole marriage. But after 10 years of being married. My husband cheated with his brother wifes daughter. Not only did i trust him, but when he said he was going to his brothers house to watch a game out just chill with his brother , i had no idea he was going to meet his lover. The truth finally came to me by her calling my house and giving me a full update of how long they have really been sleeping around. He treated me bad and i just turned the other cheek. But yet i stayed for my child sake. You see i had a child that was premature weighing 1lb and 9 oz. He demand a lot of attention from both of us. He always had a Job but very low paying with lots of time to spare. While i worked long hard hours and went to school while taking care of him and my child, or so i thought. To make a very long story short he cheated and had a child with his lover. Now trying to make it work through everything he continued to cheat. Now that the woman he cheated with is married and has moved on he wants us to try and make out marriage work. I dont and cant find it in my heart to try this again. But he is very persistent and quite annoying. Can you please give me advise on how in the Hell i get him out of my life for good. Help!!!!!!! And thanks MY RESPONSE: You get him out of your life by getting a divorce, healing, and then opening yourself up to love from a man who does not go out and get his brothers stepdaughter pregnant. He is only trying to make things work now because he does not want to grow old alone and she is no longer giving up the cat since she got married. I am quite sure that none of this was what you envisioned for your life and it does not have to be what you put up with. Only you can make that change, though. You need to stop entertaining his advances. He made choices as a grown ass man and he needs to deal with the aftermath like a grown ass man. The child will be fine and if you have to find someone else to help watch him, do what needs to be done. He sounds like the type that might cut off the kids because you cut him off. Good luck.
Posted on: Wed, 30 Jul 2014 13:06:34 +0000
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