insert #80 We worked out sincokola amaqam ethu,,ireally enjoyed ma self,and igave bukho and i abonding session,,besincokola ngathi qha ecluding whole outside world After 3hours of tiring work outs,,we showered sayotya kwa steers,,then went back home,,besekuphekiwe so we ate ndahlamba izitya then ndayo lala, The morning of the ceremony,,savuswa ngo 3am ,,bendisifa bubuthongo,,bukho keyena was half awake half asleep..we walked outside Itwas my mom inlaw.malume kabukho,.kwaqhunyiswa impepho.bekukho amanzi asebhafini yencence Iwas dying bubuthongo ndizigqwisha into engapheliyo niyayazi mos okwakuzirhawuzelela ngenxayobuthongo,,bindim lowo Malume kabukho wathetha nezinyanya,,,then us Malume: zukhanye ,ningathiya abantwana Yesterday at the gym bukho and ihad decided on the baby names so this was quite easy Me: simbulele ta Bukho: omnye ngu khanya Makabukho smiled at us Malume waqgubeka ethetha ,we were told to say something ,but iwas too emotional to say anything,,it all came back,,lwandlekazi killed my babies ,before i even knew em how cruel is tht?? Iwas in tears,,,bukho naye had nothing to say,he was just comforting me,,coz ijust became weak ,,all this wasnt bringing me any closure instead bekuvuka amanxeba Malume pleaded with the ancestors to welcome the spirits of the babies and bless us with more children Malume wahlamba ubukho kwenye ibhafu,,mama wandihlamba kwenye , Bebesihlamba ngamanzi ane ntelezi ibingandityi,,bendingasakhaliswa ,yi heartbreak bendityiwa yintelezi :( After like 30 seconds,,we got out the baths..sanxiba our gowns,we were instructed ba singosuli siyeke imizimba izomele We did ad told,we were realised to go back to bed,,we went back to out room but khange sikwazi ulala nomntuwam coz ibisitya intelezi not 1 bt 2,,xeam bekunzima oko sirhawuzelelana ,sihlekana ,,worse ba besingxolela abantu Around 4:30,,,ibiyekile ukusitya intelezi,bukho was sleepy .igot out of bed ,ndathambisa,wore ama adark am,ndathwala kakuhle ndamhle noba ndiyazincoma...by the time iwas done bukho was sleeping ,ikissed his fore head,took my phone nd went down stairs bekungeka vukimntu,,ndabeka amanzi e tea ,,ndaqala usika isonka..sis nondle came to the kitchen wabulisa then took over usika isonka,,ndaqala ukwenza ibreakfast yeqanda ndenza amaqanda amaninzi coz iwas preaparing breakfast for +- 25 ppl ,,isliced the tomatoes,, While preaparing more ppl were waking up ,,omakoti walked in ekitchen they began with cooking ikutya kwasemini...sis sbongile nd i served breakfast,,.gqiba kwethu itook oku bendikubekele ubukho,,iwent up ndisa okabukho Niyamazi ke nani ubukho,he ddnt wana eat alone infact ebefuna utya nam ,,iddnt wana urgue with him coz i knew iwouldnt win and also knowing bandivumi ubukho uzondidlalisa andijikelezise yonke leroom ndide ndenze lento ayifunayo,,bukho is one hell of a playful guy,,so isat inbed with him eating,,sagqiba ukutya,we put the plates aside sondlula bukho making it difficult for us to finish on time ,ngoba he kept on throwing the pillows at me ,okanye andijule ebedini angafuni usuka phezukwam ndide ndimncamise,,,andikitaze ,ndihleke ndilile ,,after yonke lonto besiyenza kula room sidlala ngeloxesha,,we managed to make the bed,,infact i manged to cause ubukho ebedlala yena edlalisa nam kulento yakhe lol..itook out clothes for him,wanxiba then he went ezantsi coz bekuxhelwa,phandle,,iwent to put the dishes ekitchen,,izitya bezihlanjwa ngo sis nozamile ndavele ndadikwa ihpped she says no comment ngezizitya coz ke sheam ebeseyigqiba uzihlamba,,ndazifaka esinkini,,wandiqala ezinyaweni wandonyusa iddnt mind at all xeam . Besekugcwele ngoku ekitchen,,itook ipotatoes,,ndahlala ekoneni then ibegan peeling em ..isat there listerning to the gossip of the ladies,,suprisingly usis nozamile was not part of it she was just cutting the spinach endijongile Makabukho came to stand at the door Makabukho: molweni be2na anisebahle *kwabuliswa back* Makabukho: ndikhangela umolokazana wam ketana khandincede i stood up ndaya kuye Makabukho: makubekhona umntu ozokwenza lento ebeyenza akazobuya guys Nozamile: iwonder sohlala siphi thixo Makabukho: ewe ?? Andiva nozamile? yathetha? sis nozamile said nothing waqubeleka lento ebeyenza Makabukho: mmm We walked out sobabini,,senyuka,,lol noba incoko ishiyeke ingam ekitchen We got eroomini kamakabukho ,she wanted me to help her anxibe umbhaco wakhe ndisose ndimchokoze..we did that sincokola ,,itwas always nice ukuncokola no mama ,she always kept a smile on my face ...we were called down,so sagqibezela then we went down stairs Everybody had gathered around,,ukufika kwethu,,kwaqalwa ngomthandazo then Kwahlalwa phansti Malume kabukho addressed abantu why they were here,watsho ba sibathiyile abantwana,nd we were cleanised Then sayalwa nge family planning ,,iwas kinda bored kemna yiletalk coz ibiphindwa,,.makhulu kabukho gave us her blessing on our future kidoz..kwavalwa ngomthandazo... We went e kitchen saphaka then we served abantu ,,inyawo zam bezitshisa,,after serving wonke umntu itook aplate ,,ndahlala ekitchen kula kona yam and ate ddnt wana crowed bukho ebehleli ne cazins zakhe Isat down ndatya,,iwas so tired iwanted to sleep into ibiphambile My phone rang indicating a message ibisuka ku bukho Bee: baby someone locked me apha eroomini cela uzondivulela Lol ndakhe ndahleka ndodwa,,iput my plate inthe refridgerator,,ndanyka ndaya kwi room ye2 iopened the door it wasnt lockked ndavele ndayiqonda ba ubukho uqale ezinto zakhe zingbhadlanga.. Ndithendisa ngena bukho pulled me in ,he closed the door and pinned me against the door we kissed ,,he spoke inbetween the kiss Bee: imissed these lips* we resumed our kiss* we made our way to the bed and my phone rang disturbing us..ndayiphendula Me: hello caller: hey celubuza ndithetha no nkosazan buzi? Me: yeap,,wena?? Caller: hey uthetha no sonwabile utata ka luthando......... #UZUKHANYE_NKOSAZANA_BELWANE
Posted on: Tue, 07 Oct 2014 20:44:17 +0000