❤️❤️❤️❤️ Tips for love in your marriage from the Quran 1. Fear Allah: It was the noble practice of Nabii Muhammad (SAW) to remind the spouses about the fear for Allah before performing a Nikkah by reciting the verses (An Nisa v14, Al-Imraan v101) from the Quran. All the verses are common in the message of Taqwa (fear of Allah). The spouses will be first committed to Allah before being committed to their partner. There can be no doubt in the success of a marriage governed by the fear of Allah (SWT) 2. Never be angry at the same time: Anger is the root cause for all marital disputes. One Sahabi came to Rasulullah (SAW) to ask for advise. Rasulullah (SAW) replied, control your anger. The same advice was rendered three times. (Mishkaat pg.433; HM Saeed) 3. If one has to win an argument, let it be the other: Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said: Whoever discards an argument despite being correct shall earn a palace in the centre of Jannah. (Ibid pg.412) 4. Never shout at each other unless the house is on fire: Luqman (AS) while offering advice to his son said: and lower your voice for verily the most disliked voice is that of a donkey. (Surah Luqman v19) 5. If you have to criticize/advice, do it lovingly: Rasulullah (SAW) said, A Mumin is a mirror for a Mumin. (Abu Dawud vol.2 pg.325; Imdadiyah) Advise with dignity and silently. 6. Never bring up mistakes of the past: Rasulullaah (SAW) said: Whoever conceals the faults of others, Allah (SWT) shall conceal his faults on the day of Qiyaamah. (Mishkaat pg.429; HM Saeed) 7. Neglect the whole world rather than your marriage partner: Nabii (SAW) confirmed the advice of Salman to Abu-Darda (RA) for neglecting his wife. Verily there is a right of your wife over you. (Nasai Hadith2391) 8. Never sleep with an argument unsettled: Abu Bakr (RA) resolved his dispute with his wife over-feeding the guests before going to bed. (Bukhari Hadith 602) 9. At least, once everyday, express your gratitude to your partner: Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, Whoever does not show gratitude to the people has not shown gratitude to Allah. (Abu Dawud pg.662; Karachi) 10. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness: Nabii Muhammad (SAW) said, All the sons of Adam commit mistakes, and the best of those who do mistakes are those who seek forgiveness. (Tirmidhi Hadith 2499) Via sister Juhi Arif ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Posted on: Fri, 19 Sep 2014 11:17:06 +0000
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